Spotting a speech delay in your child—and what to do next

Is a visit with a speech-language specialist in order? Look for these signs in your child’s language.

Spotting a speech delay in your
child—and what to do next

The first 6 months of life are the most crucial to a child’s development of language skills. For a person to become fully competent in any language, exposure must begin as early as possible.

Sure, we parents know that children develop at their own pace. But, it can still be difficult to stop ourselves from comparing our kids’ milestones to others’ in their peer groups. We’ve all been there! The next time you come across a preschooler at the playground who appears well on her way to a career in professional orating, remember that the speed and clarity of language development isn’t a contest.


With this in mind, we may wonder how we can give children the support and guidance necessary to grow on a timeline that’s uniquely right for them while also being aware of the importance of early intervention when there are genuine delays. Knowing what to look for is key.

Think it could be time for an evaluation with a speech-language specialist? The following are a few red flags to look for in a child between the ages of 20 and 24 months:

● Mispronounces vowel sounds or talks using primarily vowels

● Uses a single sound or syllable as a catch-all to name what’s in his or her environment

● Uses a word only once without frequent re-use

● Doesn’t show much progress from one month to the next

● Doesn’t answer questions beyond repeating back all or part of what’s been asked

● Still speaks using only single words

Keep an eye out for any of the above, but know that children under the age of 3 are still learning!

During this time, most children will mispronounce many words, have difficulty using complete sentences regularly, and sometimes say things that are unintelligible even to your well-trained ear.

Substituting one consonant sound for another, blending consonant sounds, or mixing up longer words are common attributes of the language-development process, even in kids as old as 6!

For a child between the ages of 2 and 3, an evaluation is a good idea if a child shows some of these signals:

● Says only specific words or word sounds repeatedly

● Only imitates speech or actions without using new words or phrases

● Is unable to follow simple directions or commands

● Is more difficult to understand than other children around the same age

● Has a raspy, nasal-sounding, or otherwise unusual tone of voice

By age 5, be on the lookout for these markers:

● Not being able to give his or her first and last name

● Not being able to correctly use plurals or past tense verbs (most but not all of the time)

● An inability to understand two-part commands that include prepositions

● A lack of asking the 5 “W” questions (such as “what?” or “why?”)

● Difficulty talking about what he or she has done during the day or in a given situation

Recognizing speech delays is a nuanced process and often isn’t as simple as checking off boxes from a list. Above anything else, trust your instincts. If you’re feeling worried, it’s better to play it safe and reach out to a speech-language pathologist. Ask for a recommendation or referral from your child’s daycare, preschool, or family pediatrician. Just remember, if your little one needs speech-language intervention, this is simply the next step in advocating for your child’s development.

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These are the best bath time products you can get for under $20

These budget-friendly products really make a splash.

With babies and toddlers, bath time is about so much more than washing off: It's an opportunity for fun, sensory play and sweet bonding moments—with the added benefit of a cuddly, clean baby afterward.

Because bathing your baby is part business, part playtime, you're going to want products that can help with both of those activities. After countless bath times, here are the products that our editors think really make a splash. (Better yet, each item is less than $20!)

Comforts Bath Wash & Shampoo

Comforts Baby Wash & Shampoo

Made with oat extract, this bath wash and shampoo combo is designed to leave delicate skin cleansed and nourished. You and your baby will both appreciate the tear-free formula—so you can really focus on the bath time fun.

Munckin Soft Spot Bath Mat

Munchkin slip mat

When your little one is splish-splashing in the bath, help keep them from also sliding around with a soft, anti-slip bath mat. With strong suction cups to keep it in place and extra cushion to make bath time even more comfortable for your little one, this is an essential in our books.

Comforts Baby Lotion

Comforts baby lotion

For most of us, the bath time ritual continues when your baby is out of the tub when you want to moisturize their freshly cleaned skin. We look for lotions that are hypoallergenic, nourishing and designed to protect their skin.

The First Years Stack Up Cups

First year stack cups

When it comes to bath toys, nothing beats the classic set of stackable cups: Sort them by size, practice pouring water, pile them high—your little one will have fun with these every single bath time.

Comforts Baby Oil

Comforts baby oil

For dry skin that needs a little extra TLC, our team loves Comforts' fast-absorbing baby oil aloe vera and vitamin E. Pro tip: When applied right after drying off your baby, the absorption is even more effective.

KidCo Bath Toy Organizer

KidCo Bath Organizer

Between bathing supplies, wash rags, toys and more, the tub sure can get crowded in a hurry. We like that this organizer gives your little one space to play and bathe while still keeping everything you need within reach.

Another great tip? Shopping the Comforts line on to find premium baby products for a fraction of competitors' prices—and follow along on social media to see product releases and news at @comfortsforbaby.

This article was sponsored by The Kroger Co. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

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