You know how they say that a family “vacation” is really just a “trip?” Particularly for moms on vacation with their families? Yeah, that’s because vacations are supposed to be relaxing, and there’s nothing truly relaxing about taking care of your children outside of your comfort zone. Even if that place is paradise, it’s still stressful and exhausting!

This viral Instagram Reel starring Taylor Wolfe is honestly the most accurate (and incredibly funny) depiction of “moms on vacation” you’ve ever seen. It doesn’t matter if it’s a long weekend away camping or a five-star resort, this is what it’s like for mothers everywhere when we travel with our families.

“I’m having so much fun, I’m so glad we did this. Traveling with a toddler is hard, but it’s worth it,” Wolfe begins in her parody video.

Cut to later that same day when mom is frazzled AF outside the family hotel room.

“She’s not down yet. That’s why I’m sitting here. IT’S NOT DARK ENOUGH!”

[Oh man, that last line hit me right in the blackout curtain feels. I forgot our travel blackout curtain once. NEVER AGAIN will I make that mistake.]

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Wolfe alternates between trying to convince herself that the family vacation with her toddler was “worth it” while simultaneously having the Family Vacation Breakdown we all experience—usually more than once—when away with our families.

Some relatable gems from this video include:

“I can’t find anything in this f****** suitcase!”

“No, the sippy with the straw! It’s her sippy or she’s not going to go to sleep. Son of a b****!”

“We have to leave brunch RIGHT NOW.”

“I just need…a moment.”

“I’m so bad at this!”

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Wolfe is a real one for this. The comments on the video are filled with fellow moms sharing their vacation woes and solidarity for how not fun vacations can sometimes be!

The best comment that basically surmises the entire “moms on vacation” experience?

“This is why I take a lot of nice photos of my kids on vacation so I can falsely remember that I enjoyed every second of it.”