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close up of woman looking out window - stopped being a people pleaser

When I had kids, I stopped being a people-pleaser

I set firm boundaries to protect my family and my mental health.

Updated Jan. 12, 2024
cute baby with down syndrome held by mom- reality of special needs parenting

The unspoken realities of special-needs parenting

Your love is fierce, and you were chosen to be their mama.

Updated Jan. 10, 2024
mom holding baby- postpartum preeclampsia

How a night nanny helped me heal from postpartum preeclampsia 

I’ve begun to wonder—should investing in postpartum care really be considered a luxury? 

Updated Jan. 09, 2024
pregnant woman in labor - grandma helped me through labor

How my grandma helped me through labor and delivery

At the end of it all, we are home safe and healthy, which is exactly what my birth plan was. 

Updated Jan. 09, 2024
happy woman at work - how to find fulfillment

Working mamas: 4 ways to find more fulfillment in every aspect of your life

I try to be intentional in every conversation I have to build genuine connections.

Updated Jan. 09, 2024
woman covering glass of wine with her hand dry january

4 tips for a better Dry January

It’s a great tool to help with the reset of the year and I’m hoping it will help me get back to feeling my best.

Updated Jan. 08, 2024
child kissing mothers cheek to my kindergartener show and tell

To my kindergartener: Today you made me feel so loved

You couldn’t have known it, but my heart nearly jumped out of my chest.

Updated Jan. 06, 2024
woman pouring cough syrup for her sick son - sick days

 Sick of sick days? So is my boss

There is no real rest for working parents, particularly mothers.

Updated Jan. 05, 2024
woman outside closing eyes peaceful - mindfulness practices

3 mindfulness practices to manage stress

Many mindfulness practices can be incredibly effective in small, intentional doses.

Updated Jan. 09, 2024
mom hugging daughter- saying goodbye to my daughter

Goodbye to my grown, college girl

There is no “making it,” no cease of parenting, of growing, of life.

Updated Jan. 03, 2024
working woman holding her baby - clear boundaries

How setting boundaries helped me be a more present mom, colleague and boss

Most people are extremely understanding about respecting your boundaries when you communicate with clarity and kindness.

Updated Jan. 05, 2024
woman holding baby against her chest wrapped in a blanket

‘Failure to thrive’ is a harmful and unhelpful term for my child

“Failure to thrive” kids aren’t failing at anything. 

Updated Jul. 10, 2023
sad woman scrolling on phone female friendships after kids

Female friendships after kids—where are my friends?

Unconditional love in my female friendships looks a lot different after kids.

Updated Dec. 24, 2023
couple holding baby- adoptive parents

Adoptive parents: How to level up in 2024

Search for birth parent voices to better understand and honor your child’s origins.

Updated Dec. 22, 2023
woman giving birth to baby with labor and delivery nurse nicu mama babies

5 ways I became a better labor & delivery nurse by being a NICU mama

You may not be physically close to your baby but I will do everything in my power for you to feel close to them.

Updated Dec. 22, 2023
mother and baby play together on the bed - first year postpartum data

What I learned analyzing data from my first year postpartum

Everyone’s postpartum experience is different, but one thing is clear: it’s hard work.

Updated Oct. 09, 2024
woman and her dog- my dog saved me while i was postpartum

My dog saved me while I was postpartum—but I had to let him go

I carried him through his hardest final chapter, just like he carried me through my hardest chapters so many times before.

Updated Dec. 12, 2023
two women at holiday party kind words for a friend experiencing infertility

Broken hearts at holiday parties

While all along I was trying to find the right words, maybe all we needed was a kind way to speak.

Updated Dec. 26, 2023
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