marriage after baby

Relationships after children can be hard—but mine taught me to love harder

I thought that before kids I knew unconditional love, but now I’ve learned a love with no boundaries.

Becoming parents completely changed who we are

But I love this version even more.

How ‘Friends’ saved my marriage

Discover how 'Friends' helped us bond as parents with laughter and valuable life lessons that saved our marriage.

Dear husband: I know you hate your job–but you will find your purpose

You worked so hard. You did things you didn't want to do for the sake of love. You showed up every day and you wore down your body doing labor that wasn't fun for you. You took care of us and we are so grateful for you. Thank you for showing our kids what it looks like to work hard at things for your family.

What a clinical therapist wants you to know about couple’s therapy

It is not about having a perfect relationship without difficult moments. Rather, it is about repairing the hurts and mistakes that happen so we do not keep repeating them.

8 things I want to say to my spouse the second he walks in the door

1. "I know I am wearing your sweatpants and my non-fancy robe right now, but I did have real clothes on for at least two hours today."

Our date nights have been pushed aside—but it’s not forever

We will get back to that place one day—that place where you take a purse with you instead of the diaper bag or wear the non-sensible heels.

Yes, I’m a mom *and* I put my sex life first

Recognizing our needs is the first step to reclaiming what we want.

What *really* happens in a parent’s bedroom after the kids go to sleep

Spoiler alert: It's complicated. 😴

The secret to the elusive perfect parent date night

It's not as hard as you may think, mama.

9 phrases for when you feel out of touch with your partner

Silence in your relationship is more common than you might think, but you can open the door for communication.

The key to building your child’s emotional intelligence? Connected co-parents

What does that mean and how do you feel more connected? Find out.

True life: My car is my second home

I've gotten a lot done in my Chevy.

To the mom whose partner is traveling *again* this week—I am with you

Just because it’s common doesn’t mean it’s not hard.

I am hotter now, as a mom, than ever before in my life

On days you find it hard to see past self-perceived flaws in the mirror, let me be your mirror and remind you of this

3 ways to care for your marriage when baby comes along

Couples make a huge mistake—often with noble intent—when they don’t make time for one another after the baby arrives.

4 things I learned to do for my marriage after having children

#1—Read each other’s stress cues and be gentle.

The work-life balance that works for me? Working with family.

This work arrangement is not perfect, but it’s been the greatest opportunity I’ve ever had.

From ‘happily ever after’ to after baby: How I stopped keeping score and started loving again

The problem with the scorecard game? I am really good at keeping my score but I don’t notice my husband’s efforts.

A letter to my husband—I wouldn’t be the mother I am without you

One mama pens a letter to her hubby thanking him for all his sacrifices and unwavering support.