The truth is, no matter how old my children are, no matter how independent the big ones get, no matter how "put together" I may appear, I humbly share that I am not always managing this very well all on my own. Please know I still need you.
"Always have an extra large bag of chicken nuggets waiting in the freezer for quick lunches or nights you're too tired to cook dinner."
The thing is, when I look at them with their smooth cheeks and bright eyes, I see their soft hearts and tender innocence. The thought of them being wounded or broken or hurt feels like a knife in my heart that I just couldn't take. It's too much.
Researchers found that having a second child puts a lot of pressure on parents' time and their mental health, and mothers bear the brunt of the burden.
This is my year to sleep when I can. To give myself grace, always. To embrace the mess.
The truth is, when I don't take care of myself, I can't take care of anyone else.
I never planned on being a mother of 10 kids, although I…
With that one comment, this stranger was telling me, in true mom code, the one thing all mothers need to hear: Motherhood is hard—for everyone.
I am the always-on-call parent. And if I miss any of it, if I slip up, that's all on me, too.
Babyhood is such a fleeting stage and these little souls wait for no one as they achieve milestone after milestone.
I am wholly myself and wholly a mother but I am neither just a mom nor just myself any longer.
We love that she doesn't crop out the clutter and doesn't pretend that motherhood can't be super fun and super hard at the same time.
Over half of parents spend upwards of five hours a week driving their kids around.
For the first family, the adoptee and the adoptive parents.
Since being published the post has been shared over 2,000 times with hundreds of comments of support.
Paula Kuka is the artist behind Common Wild and she's in our brains.
I will remind myself to call the babysitter in the morning, buy dish soap, call the dentist, and respond to the work email, all in about 25 seconds. When I should be sleeping.
When I was younger, I needed the constant encouragement from teachers, my parents and even my husband. But not anymore. I'm noticing I don't care as much about other people's opinions as I get older—I have found a comfort and a confidence in myself.