Find your North Star ⭐️ —31-month-old
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Find your North Star ⭐️ —31-month-old

We always say that "perfect" doesn't exist. But what if instead, we redefine what "perfect" means, understanding that everyone is going to have a completely different definition? For us, "perfect" involves a whole lot of mess and a whole lot of love—and that's okay. We take deep breaths and trust that if we stay true to ourselves by following our own North Star, we are creating our "perfect" as we go. And that's imperfectly perfect for us. XO, TeamMotherlyP.S. What's your North Star, mama?

By Motherly Updated Dec. 14, 2022

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