After one pregnancy, it’s easy to be under the impression that you’ll know what to expect the next time around. Only, for expectant mama Carrie Underwood, her current pregnancy has been “harder” than she anticipated—and many mamas of multiple kids can relate. “It’s definitely different than the first time,” Underwood tells Entertainment Tonight . “When they say every pregnancy is different, it really is.” For Underwood, who recently revealed she experienced three miscarriages before this pregnancy, the new symptoms this time around have taken her off-guard. “I feel like this one is just a little harder on my body for some reason. But it’s been really good.”
Part of that, of course, may be influenced by the fact she’s also spending her days keeping up with her 3-year-old son, Isaiah. Just as Chrissy Teigen also expressed, when you’re expecting a baby with an older child in the house , it’s simply harder to carve out downtime for yourself. That can make symptoms such as exhaustion and nausea feel that much more intense. (Pro friend tip: Offer to entertain the older child so mama can sneak an afternoon nap once in a while.) As challenging as that can be, Underwood made the point that expecting a baby with an older sibling around can have perks—even if they still have to sell Isaiah on the idea. “He says he won’t change any poopy diapers,” Underwood says. “I understand, maybe I can change his mind.”
Meanwhile, the family is keeping plenty busy with awards show appearances ( and wins ) and preparing for a move, which has put Underwood’s buying habits on hold. “I haven’t bought anything yet, we still have some of the stuff, cribs and stuff from my son, but we’ll figure it out,” she says. “It’d be pointless to buy it and then move it.” The family has been making plans, though, like deciding on a name for the baby that they are keeping private for now. And after a difficult road to expand the Fisher-Underwood family, she says they are really trying to enjoy the moment by keeping a positive outlook despite the less than positive symptoms.

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