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Adopt & Foster & Surrogacy

In this day and age, options abound for starting a family. Whether you’re considering adoption, foster care or surrogacy, take heart with stories of other parents who have been there, too.

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The Trevor Project’s Chris Bright on her transition journey, foster parenting and the power of unconditional love

Chris Bright, the director of public training at The Trevor Project, joins Liz to talk about her transition journey, what growing up was like for her, and why she decided to become a foster parent.

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Tiffany Haddish says she plans to adopt older kids from foster care

The famous actress and comedian knows firsthand what it feels like to be a a child in foster care.

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Surrogacy, explained with heart: building families through community

Surrogacy is more than a medical pathway. It is a relationship-centered way to grow a family. Here is what to know, how to start, and the support you deserve.

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Why surrogacy stories deserve to be told

When families share the real paths that brought their children home, they replace silence with connection. Here is why surrogacy stories matter and how to tell yours with care.

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10 questions to ask before choosing a surrogate

Choosing a gestational carrier is a profound decision. These questions help you align expectations, protect everyone legally and emotionally, and set up a compassionate, respectful partnership.

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7 ways surrogates describe their emotional journey

Surrogacy can be profound, complex, and beautiful all at once. Here are seven ways surrogates often describe their inner experience, plus simple prompts and scripts to support the process.

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Adoption: Love in your adopted family is not fragile

Adoption is not a lesser kind of love. It is deliberate, hard-won, and deeply resilient. Here is a grounded, hope-filled reflection for any parent building family through adoption.

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Surrogacy, explained with heart: building families through community

Surrogacy is more than a medical pathway. It is a relationship-centered way to grow a family. Here is what to know, how to start, and the support you deserve.

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Why surrogacy stories deserve to be told

When families share the real paths that brought their children home, they replace silence with connection. Here is why surrogacy stories matter and how to tell yours with care.

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10 questions to ask before choosing a surrogate

Choosing a gestational carrier is a profound decision. These questions help you align expectations, protect everyone legally and emotionally, and set up a compassionate, respectful partnership.

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What adoption shows us about chosen family

Adoption is one path many families take to love and belonging. Here is what it can teach all of us about building chosen family with care, clarity, and lifelong commitment.

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12 lessons adoption teaches families about love

Adoption does not just build a family. It expands your definition of love in ways you can feel every day, from the words you choose to the rituals you create.

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7 ways surrogates describe their emotional journey

Surrogacy can be profound, complex, and beautiful all at once. Here are seven ways surrogates often describe their inner experience, plus simple prompts and scripts to support the process.

What Surrogates Wish Parents Knew

What surrogates wish intended parents knew

Surrogates say the best journeys are built on clarity, respect and real support. Here is what they want you to know before you match, so everyone feels seen and protected.

Adoption Anniversaries Matter

Why adoption anniversaries matter more than you think

Marking the day your family legally or practically came together can be more than a sweet tradition. Done thoughtfully, an adoption anniversary can build identity, strengthen attachment and honor every person in your child’s story.

Surrogacy Needs Village of Support

Why surrogacy requires a village of support

Gestational surrogacy is never a solo act. The medical, legal, and emotional layers are real, which is exactly why building your village early protects the gestational carrier, the baby, and you.

How Adoption Reshapes Family Life

How adoption reshapes every part of family life

Adoption does not just add a child to your home, it rebuilds your family’s story, routines, and relationships. Here is what changes, why it is normal, and how to navigate it with care, clarity, and support.

Make Adoption Celebrated

9 supportive rituals that make adoption feel celebrated

Your family’s story deserves to be honored. Simple, repeatable rituals help you mark milestones, nurture connection and keep your child’s identity at the center.

Supportive Phrases Surrogacy

12 supportive phrases moms navigating surrogacy deserve to hear

In this day and age, options abound for starting a family. Whether…

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Ms. Rachel welcomes baby girl via surrogate: “I’m meant to be your mama”

“We welcomed sweet baby Susannah into the world! 💕 We are so in love,” she wrote in an Instagram post.

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Chicago man reunites with long-lost mother after adoption and helps keep her bakery alive

“It’s the most joyful story and time in my life,” Lindsey told ABC News. “In my senior years, all of this has come together.”

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To everyone facing infertility this Christmas: I know the ache of ‘not this year’

As another holiday season comes and goes, I know how easy it is to begin to wonder if you're ever going to be called mom.

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I didn’t make my son, but I’m in awe that I get to call him mine

On the flip side, as an adoptive mama, I feel the sentiment of looking at my child in complete awe.

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Adoptive parents: How to level up in 2024

Search for birth parent voices to better understand and honor your child’s origins.

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Navigating parenthood when you feel like an outlier

My lack of a physical pregnancy experience meant that connecting with other mothers could be difficult.

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