Lady Gaga And Liza Minnelli Share Touching Moment At Oscars

The second most viral moment of last night’s Oscars (we shan’t be contributing to the discourse on the first) was when Lady Gaga and Liza Minnelli came onstage to present the award for Best Picture.

It’s not just that Lady Gaga, a legend in her own right, held fellow legend Liza Minnelli’s hand as the two were on stage together. It’s not just that she clearly reveres her, and made sure that the audience showed their admiration and respect for Minnelli as well. And it’s not just that Lady Gaga specifically requested that Minnelli present the Best Picture award with her, according to PEOPLE.

The shared touching moment is going viral because of how it’s making everyone feel, absolutely. But it’s also going viral because it’s a true testament to how the industry (and society as a whole) should treat older women. And given how much Liza Minnelli has contributed to said industry throughout her entire life—from the moment Judy Garland gave birth to her until now, 76 years later—she deserves every bit of the respect shown by Lady Gaga. And she, as well as all older women, deserves that same respect from everyone.

It’s going viral because it’s rare to see that level of respect, kindness, and admiration toward older adults (in this piece, I’m using the term “older adults,” which is preferred by the aging community as opposed to terms like “elderly”).

“You know how I love working with legends,” Lady Gaga said during the presentation. “And I’m honored to present the final award of the evening with a true show business legend.”

This is like a lesson in how to facilitate older people while honouring who they are.
What a class act by @ladygaga with legend Liza Minnelli.
The conferred whispers of "I gotcha" "I know" picked up by the mikes make it especially touching.pic.twitter.com/2JOWyrTQxn
— Naomi O'Leary (@NaomiOhReally) March 28, 2022

At one point, Minnelli was sorting through her notes and said, “I don’t understand.” Things became quiet for a brief moment, but the mics picked up the off-script exchange.

Lady Gaga assured her with a hand squeeze: “I got it.”

Minnelli responded with a hushed, “I know.”

It’s that simple moment of kindness—free of all condescension—that is making the entire internet tear up with emotion.

Lady GaGa has consistently shown real humanity understanding kindness support and respect. Genuinely a super person a consummate vocal Artist and performer. A person to look up to and admire.
— Alan Omahoney (@AlanOmahoney) March 28, 2022

I became a fan of Lady Gaga after watching a documentary on her doing an album with Tony Bennett who had developed Alzheimer's between the time of 1st & 2nd albums.
I was a carer for my Mum with the same condition; I never cried, I did watching that. She gets it.
— Claire Higgins (@ClarNiUigin) March 28, 2022

Lady Gaga whispering “I gotcha” to Liza and Liza saying “I know” back to her has healed me. I am healed.
— Shakina (@Shakeenz) March 28, 2022

In a night where everyone will unfortunately remember the worst of this years Oscars, try to remember that on a hot mic, Lady Gaga turned to Liza Minnelli and said “I got you.”
— Erich Bergen (@erichbergen) March 28, 2022

Lady Gaga telling Liza Minnelli "I got you" on stage at the Academy Awards in an industry and society that so rarely takes care of its older women. My heart needed that. One day I hope someone will be there to say "I got you" too.
— Jamie Tunkel (@jamietunkel) March 28, 2022

Lady Gaga just quietly saying to Liza Minelli, "i got you," after she couldn't quite get out her line, hath MELTED MY COLD DEAD HEART
— Claire is off the bird app for Lent (@clairewillett) March 28, 2022

lady gaga whispering “i got you” and liza minelli saying “i know” pic.twitter.com/b7jFP1vE2Z
— BEX 💎 #TeamAngeria #TeamCamden (@BEXECUTI0NER) March 28, 2022

Ageism is the act of stereotyping and/or discrimination against individuals or groups on the basis of their age, and it can be both casual or systemic. The term “ageism” was coined in 1969 by Robert Neil Butler to describe discrimination against seniors, and patterned on sexism and racism.

According to Ageing Equal, older women face both ageism and sexism in their lives and are more likely to encounter ageism in general. Older women of color and those in marginalized groups are even more likely to face sexism, ageism and even violence.

In Hollywood, older women who aren’t named Meryl Streep or Judi Dench lose roles in favor of younger actresses, because show business definitely values youth and appearance (hello, toxic beauty standards) and uses those things as a bargaining chip for professional power. It’s frustrating, it’s sad, and it’s an uphill battle.

This just makes moments like this between Lady Gaga and Liza Minnelli—where a powerful younger adult treats an older adult with respect, admiration worthy of such a legendary career, and love rather than pity, condescension, or jokes—all the more important. We love to see women lifting up other women, no matter their age or background.