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Tammy Duckworth will be the first U.S. senator to give birth while in office

This year is shaping up to be a monumentous one for women in American politics: There are now more women serving in the United States Senate than at any other time. And, for the first time, one of them is pregnant. ?


On Tuesday, Sen. Tammy Duckworth, a Democrat from Illinois, announced she is expecting her second child with husband Bryan Bowlsbey in early April.

After an outpouring of congratulations, Duckworth, 49, expressed her gratitude and added she already knows motherhood gives her even more purpose in serving Americans.

“I’m hardly alone or unique as a working parent,” Duckworth says in a Twitter statement. “My daughter Abigail has only made me more committed to doing my job and standing up for hardworking families everywhere.”

Speaking with the Chicago Sun Times, Duckworth, who will be 50 when the baby is due, said she couldn’t be more thrilled to complete her family.

“I’ve had multiple IVF cycles and a miscarriage trying to conceive again, so we’re very grateful,” she says.

As any working parent knows, this won’t be easy—but Duckworth certainly knows how to persevere: While serving with the Illinois Army National Guard in Iraq in 2004, the Black Hawk helicopter she was piloting was shot down, which led to the amputation of both of her legs below the knee.

She continued to serve in the National Guard until 2014 when she stepped down to serve in the United States House of Representatives. As a congresswoman, she welcomed her first daughter, Abigail, in 2014. She made the move to the Senate after the 2016 election.

The news from Duckworth comes on the heels of another baby announcement from New Zealand’s Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern, who will be the first national leader to have a baby while in office in nearly 30 years.

And to think that women in the United States weren’t even allowed to vote—let alone pursue political careers and family life—until 98 years ago.

Not only are we teaching our daughters that they really can do anything they set their hearts on, but the influence of mothers in politics makes the world a better place. Even Duckworth says she was more driven to stand up for mothers’ rights after becoming one herself.

“I have a better understanding in a way that I didn’t have,” she tells the Chicago Sun Times, explaining it became personal when “I was the one who was trying to pump breast milk in airports.”

She has since led measures to improve facilities for pumping mothers in airports, military parental leave policies and on-campus childcare options. She also sponsors or co-sponsors bills regarding affordable childcare, parental leave and maternal health issues.

This progress sure is an amazing thing to see, both as a woman of this generation and a parent of the next.

When expecting a baby, there is a lot you can test-run in advance: Take that stroller around the block. Go for a spin with the car seat secured in place. Learn how to use the baby carrier with help from a doll. But breastfeeding? It's not exactly possible to practice before baby's arrival.

The absence of a trial makes it all the more important to prepare in other ways for breastfeeding success—and it can be as simple as adding a few of our lactation aiding favorites to your registry.

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For a breastfeeding mama, there are few things more precious and valuable than the milk she worked so hard to pump—and it's the stuff of nightmares to imagine it spilling out in the fridge. With these double-sealed milk storage bags, you can be assured your breastmilk is safe and sound until baby needs it.

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Nursing a baby is a 24/7 job, which calls for some wardrobe modifications. Because Belly Bandit specializes in making things more comfortable for the postpartum mama, they've truly thought of every detail—from the breathable fabric to the clips that can be easily opened with one hand.

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A unfortunate reality of nursing is that it can really seem to limit the wardrobe options when you have to think about providing easy, discrete access. But by adding functional basics to your closet, you can feel confident and prepared for breastfeeding on the go.

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Bebe au Lait premium cotton nursing cover

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Nursing in public isn't every mama's cup of tea. But babies can't always wait until you've found a private place to get down to business if that's your preference. That's where a nursing cover comes in handy. This one is made from premium cotton and features a patented neckline that allows for airflow and eye contact even while you're covered.

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Curious to learn more about the liquid gold you're making, mama? The testing kit from Lactation Labs analyzes your breast milk for basic nutritional content like calories and protein, as well as vitamins, fatty acids and environmental toxins to help boost your breastfeeding confidence.

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