Failure to thrive does not mean you are failing as a mom.
Everyone except those of us who don't get a break.
If we don't do anything about the guilt it can eat away at us.
It takes time to find a new normal.
Because when you think of it, we’re always about 20 different versions of ourselves at once. We’re mother, daughter, friend, wife, teacher, doctor, nurse.
And you need a break. A break from perfectionism. A break from self-sacrifice. A break from being everything to everyone else at all times.
And we shouldn’t have to feel guilty for wanting this precious time with our baby. Or selfish for wanting to still get paid during this time.
Even if it looks like things come naturally, it doesn’t mean it’s always easy.
Every single mother I know is figuring it out as she goes, making it work along the way.
1. Accept trade-offs as inevitable
Perhaps mom guilt is a sign that you are a caring and aware mother.
What happens when breastfeeding isn’t as easy as you thought it would be?
We are all just winging this whole motherhood thing. And that’s okay, mamas.