2. Worrying about going to the bathroom
In the fourth trimester, your baby is going through a massive environment transition.
Just breathe, mama.
"I always want to be the people pleaser in the family and make sure everyone knows how much I care about them—but in doing so I wasn't taking care of myself," shares Anstead.
"I still have stitches and I'm still bleeding, an obvious sign that I have not yet recovered from delivering my baby, even six weeks later," shares Skrysak.
This is a picture of me mid-meltdown during my second week as a mom of two. I just got done breastfeeding for what felt like the 100th time and my husband had just entered the room asking if I needed anything, and I said no. When he walked out, I just broke down. Because there were SO many things I needed.
The Life After Birth project is changing the way we look at and talk about postpartum bodies.
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"I believe that it is absolutely critical right now to invest in solutions that help protect the lives of moms and babies," says Williams.
3. Ask a friend or family member to arrange a meal sign up.
It's a common symptom, but it doesn't have to be.
The comedian has been through a lot, from battling hyperemesis during pregnancy to a C-section recovery, so it's wonderful to see her feeling strong.
We're here for you in solidarity, mama!
I saw the pain in your eyes and in your face and in your body.
We still have work to do in this arena, and mamas, that work continues with us.
My personal experience has made me more aware of the fears and anxieties my patients may be carrying from previous pregnancies.
Let's take a moment to appreciate how extraordinary women's bodies are.
Newly postpartum women are suffering in silence, but they don't have to be.
If I could tell you anything about struggling with this, it is this: PPA is real, it is not normal, and getting help is okay. Do not feel ashamed, do not feel embarrassed, and don't for one second think you owe anyone an explanation.
And being kind to yourself along the way.