For me, accepting the limitations of my time and energy forces me to get incredibly clear about what I value most.
Accepting or asking for help is something many moms, myself included, struggle with, but the most effective corporate CEOs do it every day without guilt or apology.
A new study shows dads log 50 more minutes of relaxation on the weekends than moms.
We're constantly told to practice self-care to stave off burnout, but that prescriptive time comes at a cost—even if the cost is just guilt.
I had grown up seeing what it means to love your job, to spend your weekends working because you loved it so much. You had set the bar pretty high! So, not wanting to settle, I quit to find the thing I would truly love.
When you're the primary breadwinner, there are sacrifices. There is nothing like parenthood to make you aware of the passage of time and of the missed moments that you don't get back.
In a perfect world, we would be applauded for our commitment to our families and discouraged from logging on after hours.
But the guilt didn't go away.
The labor requirements of a single mother are uniquely intense. Sometimes when I break it down for myself I feel like a superhero and sometimes I feel even more tired.
Just over 2 million workers got access to paid leave but there are more than 157 million Americans working across the nation.
The whispers in the back of my mind started: "You picked work over your son, bad mom"
Mama, that you are not alone. We're all in it with you and sometimes we just need a little reminder that we are enough.
It's a tale that's all too-familiar for most moms out there.
My son mellowed me; he softened me and transformed my ambitions in a way I could never have predicted.
It's safe to say I was in a delicate place, mentally and physically. So it shouldn't be a surprise that I almost lost it when a coworker, who found out I was a new mother, innocently asked, "So, who's watching the baby right now?"
1. Set expectations with your boss.
I could probably switch the wash over to the dryer and get those towels that have been sitting in there folded and put away. But as I watched your chest gently rise and fall, I realized something.
We need to do more to protect these women.
From travel points to getting your child ready for college.
She makes a call for equal pay—and we're here for it.