Top breastfeeding positions: What they are and when to try them

When you start breastfeeding, there are so many things to take into consideration—and positions to breastfeed in are huge.

Nursing will need to happen in lots of different places and occasions, and you may not be in your comfortable nursing chair each time you breastfeed. That's why it's a great idea to learn several different positions to help you along the way.

These are by no means the only ways to breastfeed, but may help you establish a few different methods of nursing for when the occasion strikes:

The cross-cradle

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This is the standard, go-to nursing position that most Lactation Consultants will start you on.


Holding your baby on their side, bring their body in close to yours with the opposite arm to the breast you are feeding on (i.e. left arm to right breast). Your right arm then comes underneath the body of your baby, and the other hand can stay to keep the head in place. You can also use a support pillow if you need to.

Good for:

  • First-time nursers
  • In bed
  • On a chair
  • Public places
  • All ages from newborn

The cradle

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The same as the cross-cradle but this time, the baby's head can be supported by the crook of the arm that is holding the baby's body. You now have a free hand that is able to reposition your breast, turn a magazine page or drink your water.

Good for:

  • Established feeders
  • Quick and long feeds

The football clutch:

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Similar to the cradle as you are only using one arm. The baby's body is not lying in front of yours but is more to the side and under your arm. Your right arm comes to your right breast. This can be used for when your baby is on their back or their side.

Good for:

  • When you are not in a chair or bed, or short on space
  • Discretion when you are feeding from under your top, rather than a drop-down shirt
  • Twin-feeding
  • If your baby is a kicker
  • If the weather is hot (less body contact)
  • If the weather is cold (you can stay more covered up)

Side lying

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Lie on your side and bring your baby in close to you. Baby is also on their side or on their back. You can prop your head up on a pillow or on your arm. To stop your baby from rolling onto their back or front, you can use a pillow or your arm to keep them there.

You can start by using the breast closest to the mattress and then either swap sides or maneuver your body and breast to enable to feed from the other side. Alternatively, you could bring your baby closer to your top breast by raising them on a pillow.

(Psst: Check out the AAP guidelines for safe sleep, since a lot of moms find they fall asleep in this position.)

Good for:

  • Nighttime feeds
  • If your arms are fatigued


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Your baby is on their back, and you are bringing your breast to them by allowing it to drop into their mouth. You can be more comfortable if you prop yourself up on one arm, use a pillow or lie on your side.

Good for:

  • If you don't want to move your baby
  • If you have large breasts
  • If your breasts are sore
  • Higher milk flow


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Your baby is inline with your body. You can hold them under their arms or, depending on how big they are, prop them on your knee. You can be in bed or on a chair. Your hands can be free if desired (depending on if your baby is able to stay supported and balanced). The angle of the recline can be from sitting to lying on your back, depending on your preference.

Good for:

  • Babies that have difficulties burping
  • Distracted babies
  • Babies that have FOMO (fear of missing out)
  • Quick feeds
  • When you need to use both your hands


Katie Booker

Your baby is vertically upright, and you are too. Your baby is inline with your body. You can be sitting upright or even standing. Your baby can be sitting on your knee if they are big enough or you can support them under their bottoms and behind their head.

Good for:

  • Babies with reflux
  • When the baby is in a child carrier
  • When you need to use both your hands

There are so many different ways of feeding your baby, and I'm sure if you have a look on social media, you will be sure to see some inventive ones. Hopefully, these few standard ones will be able to help you with your breastfeeding journey and try out some new ones for variety.

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14 outdoor toys your kids will want to play with beyond summer

They transition seamlessly for indoor play.

With Labor day weekend in the rearview and back-to-school in full swing, most parents are fresh out of boxes to check on their "Fun Concierge" hit list. It's also the point of diminishing returns on investing in summer-only toys. So with that in mind, we've rounded up some of our favorite toys that are not only built to last but will easily make the transition from outdoor to indoor play. Even better, they're Montessori-friendly and largely open-ended so your kids can get a ton of use out of them.

From sunny backyard afternoons to rainy mornings stuck inside, these toys are sure to keep little ones engaged and entertained.

Meadow ring toss game

Plan Toys meadow ring toss game

Besides offering a fantastic opportunity to hone focus, coordination, determination and taking turns, lawn games are just plain fun. Set them up close together for the littles and spread them out when Mom and Dad get in on the action. With their low profile and rope rings, they're great for indoors as well.


Balance board

Plan Toys balance board

Balance boards are a fabulous way to get the wiggles out. This one comes with a rope attachment, making it suitable for even the youngest wigglers. From practicing their balance and building core strength to working on skills that translate to skateboarding and snowboarding, it's a year-round physical activity that's easy to bring inside and use between Zoom classes, too!


Detective set

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This set has everything your little detective needs to solve whatever mystery they might encounter: an eye glasses, walkie-talkie, camera, a red lens, a periscope and a bag. Neighborhood watch? Watch out.


Wooden doll stroller

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Take their charges on a stroll around the block with this classic doll stroller. With the same versatility they're used to in their own ride, this heirloom quality carriage allows their doll or stuffy to face them or face the world.


Sand play set

Plan Toys sand set

Whether you're hitting the beach or the backyard sandbox, this adorable wooden sand set is ready for action. Each scoop has an embossed pattern that's perfect for sand stamping. They're also totally suitable for water play in the wild or the bathtub.


Water play set

Plan Toys water play set

Filled with sand or water, this tabletop sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.


Mini golf set

Plan Toys mini golf set

Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.


Vintage scooter balance bike

Janod retro scooter balance bike

Pedals are so 2010. Balance bikes are the way to go for learning to ride a bike while skipping the training wheels stage altogether. This impossibly cool retro scooter-style is built to cruise the neighborhood or open indoor space as they're learning.


Wooden rocking pegasus

plan toys wooden rocking pegasus

Your little will be ready to take flight on this fun pegasus. It gently rocks back and forth, but doesn't skimp on safety—its winged saddle, footrests and backrest ensure kids won't fall off whether they're rocking inside or outside.


Croquet set

Plan Toys croquet set

The cutest croquet set we've ever seen! With adorable animal face wooden balls and a canvas bag for easy clean up, it's also crafted to stick around awhile. Round after round, it's great for teaching kiddos math and problem-solving skills as well.


Wooden digital camera

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Kids get the chance to assemble the camera on their own then can adventure anywhere to capture the best moments. With two detachable magnetic lenses, four built-in filters and video recorder, your little photographer can tap into their creativity from summertime to the holidays.


Wooden bulldozer toy

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Whether they're digging up sand in the backyad or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? Its wooden structure means it's not an eye sore to look at wherever your digger drops it.


Pull-along hippo

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There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.


Baby forest fox ride-on

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Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.


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I was literally walking on eggshells, tiptoeing around the house, watching the television with the closed caption on.

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