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Sarah Schaaf is one of those mamas.

She’s mother, wife, and Founder + CEO of Expectantly —a just-launched baby goods that pairs families with high quality baby gear to borrow for a specific amount of time (with the option to buy at the end of the rental if you love it.)

Expectantly is about to save your family a bunch of money (and storage space!) And Sarah is about to inspire you about how she makes it all work—

Why did you believe you needed to create Expectantly?


Sarah Schaaf: When my son was a few months old my husband and I realized how much stuff we had accumulated that we had barely used. Our garage looked like a high end baby boutique!

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I couldn’t get over how much money we had spent, and more importantly, how wasteful the whole process had been.

Even the items that he loved like his bassinet and swing had only been used a few months max, and it just seemed like a terrible waste in every sense.

So many parents were having the same experience we were having we decided to do something about it. We wanted to save parents time and money while conserving resources by creating a more modern paradigm for this industry. We’re the first company bringing this model to market and we couldn’t be more excited about it and the positive impact we hope it creates.

What was the need in the market?


Sarah Schaaf: Modern millennial parents are comfortable with the idea of sharing items with people they don’t know thanks to companies like Uber, Rent the Runway, Getaround and AirBnB. We wanted to bring that same concept to new and expectant parents with Expectantly.

We’ve partnered with the leading brands in the industry and buy our products direct from the manufacturers. We send them out to Expectantly clients (cleaning and authenticating them in between users) over an 18 month period, then we donate those items to charity.

We’re giving our clients the ability to have everything they want for their children without wasting precious resources on items they won’t use for an extended period of time. And we’re giving back to the Earth and our local and national communities. We’re thrilled that we’ve been able to bring a model to market that fulfills a need while also doing good.

Tell us about how your career to this point—how did you get here?


Sarah Schaaf: I worked as an attorney for 5 years at firms in downtown SF defending corporate clients in litigation matters before taking a position in Google’s legal department.

Even though I had been successful as an attorney I never felt totally fulfilled by the work I was doing. I left Google to go on maternity leave and started playing around with the idea of starting my own company.

I saw a need in the market that wasn’t being met in an industry that was long overdo for an update. I knew so many successful and smart entrepreneurs to lean on for advice and I live in arguably the best city in the world for innovation and entrepreneurship.

I figured that if I was going to take a risk in my career now was the time.

I met amazing co-founders and we decided to team up and start Expectantly. Since starting my own company I’ve realized I love the creative process in a way that I never found as a practicing attorney. It’s amazing how well the training I received as an lawyer has helped me in starting my own company. I definitely think everything I’ve done in my career so far lead me exactly where I need to be.

How are Millennial parents transforming their relationship with ‘stuff’? Is it Marie Kondo? Is it student debt? Urban living? Is something else at play in the culture that is driving us to want to live well with less?


Sarah Schaaf: Such a great question! I think it’s probably a combination of all those things as well as some other influences. I think millennials are much more aware than past generations of the idea of waste: wasted time, wasted money, wasted resources, wasted space.

Millennials are the generation of conservation in so many ways.

Since a very young age we’ve been used to the concept of recycling (and now composting) our trash and conserving water and resources during a time in which our planet is changing in a negative way at an incredibly fast rate.

Millennials are also a generation of people that are all about taking action and standing up for what you believe in. All of these beliefs along with the amazing ability the internet has given us to get and receive information at an incredible speed has made all of us experts in knowing exactly what we want and how to get it.

These days millennials want to be smart with their resources and just generally do good in the world, and that’s what Expectantly is all about. We buy our products brand new from our manufacturing partners and send them out to clients, using only non-toxic Method products to clean them between clients. After about 18 months in our client pool the items are donated to families in need through our charity partner Baby2Baby. We’re reducing waste, saving resources, and helping needy families. It’s definitely a concept millennials can understand and feel good about using.

What are your secrets for integrating work and family?


Sarah Schaaf: I’ll let you know when I figure it out!

Seriously though, it’s a constant work in progress.

When I’m with my son I make him my priority and just cherish our time together. I find if I try to multitask when I’m with him I just end up frustrated, so just giving in completely and being silly with him is so much more productive!

I have an amazing partner in my husband—he is such a team player and we really work together to make our household run. I count on him and he counts on me. I think it’s important for partners to give each other the time and space they need to be themselves outside of their duties as parents. Like my husband taking care of things on his own a morning or two a week so I can go to a spin class or me taking care of the evening routine so he can go for a run or meet up with friends.

We make sure to really enjoy our time together as a family and also give ourselves the space to do what we love outside the house, too.

We love hearing from other women about how they make it all work. Can you give us a little glimpse into a day-in-the-life?


At 6: 30 am. . . Getting out of bed to grab my baby out of his crib and get him a bottle. We snuggle and watch the news and I just try to enjoy my time with him before I’m out the door and gone for the day.

At 7:45 am. . . Trying to sneak in a quick workout at the gym or waiting for our nanny to arrive so I can rush out the door. If I’m at home I’m trying to entertain my little boy while also getting dressed and ready for the day, definitely no easy feat and I’m not always successful at it!

At 10:00 am. . . At the office working side by side with Chrissy or out at a meeting of some sort. Lately we’ve been spending a lot of mornings with our developer in web design meetings or at the Method offices discussing our exclusive partnership for our upcoming launch. Or investor meetings, I feel like I’m always in fundraising mode being the CEO of a startup. I find the mornings to be really productive for me and I’m always trying to make my way through at least one to do list.

At 1:00 pm. . . Late lunch or in a meeting. A lot of afternoons I’m with Chrissy and Thornton (my husband, one of my co-founders and Expectantly’s COO) at our warehouse space or going back and forth between our office and our warehouse (luckily they are only about 2 blocks apart). I also try to save phone calls for the afternoon so you might find me on the phone with our PR agency or one of our charity partners or sneaking in an afternoon cup of coffee between calls.

At 3:00 pm. . . Still at the office but thinking about what the heck we’re going to have for dinner and the logistics of how we’re going to get food on the table!

At 5:00 pm. . . Knocking off work and commuting to either the gym or the grocery store or an activity of some sort for my son (music class, swim lessons, etc.). I’m always trying to squeeze 12 hours of activities into a 10 hour day and some days it’s a real struggle to get it all done.

At 9:00 pm. . . Sometimes on my laptop getting a few more work tasks done, but usually on the couch snuggling with my husband and dog and watching something mindless on TV. I need a little bit of time after a long day to unwind and unplug, so it’s really hard for me to get in bed before 10 pm. But it’s worth it to catch up with my partner and mentally prepare myself for what’s coming up the next day.

Even though Expectantly is about living with less, it’s also about valuing high quality products. What are the amazing products you can’t live without as parents?


Sarah Schaaf: There’s no denying the value of procuring high quality items for your kids, especially for things you use constantly.

We love our OXO Tot Sprout high chair and our son uses it 3-5 times a day. It’s so intuitive and easy to keep clean and the design is super modern. We also can’t live without our Nuna Sena playard. We use it for travel and around the house—it’s so easy to fold up and pretty lightweight.

When my son was younger and eating baby food we used the Beaba Babycook almost everyday, but after a few months he had moved on to solids and we were done with that product.

I absolutely adore Method products—we use their products all over our home in almost every room to keep it clean and germ free and smelling amazing.

Do you have a mentor or someone you look up to that’s helped to shape you as a woman and a mother? Tell us how they inspire you.


Sarah Schaaf: It might sound a little cliche, but my mom has been the most powerful female influence in my life by far. She is also an attorney and always managed to excel in her career while being the most thoughtful and caring mother.

She has taught me so much about being present in whatever you are doing and being able to handle multiple roles at the same time.

She’s an amazing mother, wife, grandmother, friend and co-worker and I’ll be lucky if I’m able to accomplish half of what she’s done in her career and her family life.

Tell us about your children. How have they transformed your career?


Sarah Schaaf: My children have absolutely had a transformative effect of on the direction of my career. Our first child was a girl named Viviette. She passed away 2 days before her due date. Losing her was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through and it changed the direction of my life in every way.

I decided that life was too short to spend time doing things that weren’t meaningful to me.

Losing her was a major inspiration in my decision to leave the law and start my own company. My son, Thatcher, is an absolute joy. We had him about a year and a half after we lost Vivi, and he’s been my inspiration everyday in moving forward with my dream of making Expectantly come to life. I can honestly say that if it weren’t for my children there is no way I would be in the professional situation I’m in now, and Expectantly wouldn’t exist.

What gets you out of bed in the morning and keeps you inspired and excited about life?


Sarah Schaaf: My son, my husband and our adventures! Just seeing the look on his face every morning makes me excited to wake up and get the day going.

Right now I’m in a place where I feel like time is passing too quickly! I want to slow down time and be present and enjoy every minute.

We’d love to hear—what would you tell other mamas who want to turn their passions into their professions?


Sarah Schaaf: The most important thing you can have in life and your career is passion for what you are doing. Without that, a job is just a job (and that’s okay too, especially if your job allows you to have passion for what you do in your free time.)

If you have passion for something that really moves you and gets you excited, then don’t waste another minute. Start doing what you need to do to make the transition.

I also highly recommend leaning on other women for advice and introductions to people that can help you with your goals. Most successful women have had someone help them get to where they are and are just waiting to repay the favor. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and lean on others while you make your way.

What are your big dreams for Expectantly?


Sarah Schaaf: We want to make Expectantly the new standard for how parents interact with the things they need for their growing families. We want to update and disrupt the existing standard in this industry. By allowing people to interact with the things they need in the way that they want, we want to make people’s lives more convenient and delightful while saving precious resources and helping families in need.

What do you hope your children learn from your career?


Sarah Schaaf: I hope my children learn that being happy is just as important as being successful. For a big portion of my career I was really focused on objective success and making money. Now I’m much more focused on being happy and doing something meaningful and fulfilling with my time.

And surrounding yourself with supportive people that you learn from and love working with is important, too.

You pick up a lot of qualities from the people you spend the most time with, so make sure they’re positive people with big ideas.

What does it mean to you to be “Motherly”?


Sarah Schaaf: Being “Motherly” is being a true supporter of other women and mothers, even if you have different parenting or mothering styles.

Being “Motherly” is also about persevering in the face of adversity and carrying on when things don’t work out the way you planned.

Sometimes life throws things at you that you didn’t expect, and I believe it’s our role as mothers to set an example for our kids and show them that we can be strong even if things are hard.

Sometimes being strong means asking for help or advice from someone else, and it’s important that we teach our children that, too. Similarly, I think the most flattering quality in any mother is being able to make adjustments in the face of change. After all, change is the only true constant in life, so being able to roll with it and adjust accordingly is the definition of being “Motherly” in my book.

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It was a historical moment for the world and a scary moment for a woman who had just become a mother for the first time. When the Duchess of Cambridge stepped out of the Lindo Wing at St. Mary's Hospital on July 22, 2013, with her new baby in her arms she was happy—but understandably scared, too.

Kate Middleton recently appeared on Giovanna Fletcher's Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast and when Fletcher asked her about her postpartum debut Kate said she felt a little freaked out when she stepped out with her newborn.

"Yeah, slightly terrifying, slightly terrifying, I'm not going to lie," Kate said.

During the podcast the Duchess opened up about her pregnancy and birth experiences, explaining how much hypnobirthing helped her and that she didn't know whether she was delivering a prince or princess until Prince George was born as she'd opted to be surprised.

She was surprised and thrilled when she met her son, and looked forward to post-pregnancy life after spending her pregnancy quite ill with hyperemesis gravidarum (a seriously debilitating form of extreme morning sickness). She was happy, but was also (very understandably) overwhelmed. In addition to all the pressure new moms feel, Kate had an army of photographers waiting outside the hospital for her.

"Everything goes in a bit of a blur. I think, yeah I did stay in hospital overnight, I remember it was one of the hottest days and night with huge thunderstorms so I didn't get a huge amount of sleep, but George did, which was really great," she explained. "I was keen to get home because, for me, being in hospital, I had all the memories of being in hospital because of being sick [with acute morning sickness] so it wasn't a place I wanted to hang around in. So, I was really desperate to get home and get back to normality."

Kate wanted to get home, but she also did want to share her baby boy with the public who had been so supportive of her young family, she explains.

"Everyone had been so supportive and both William and I were really conscious that this was something that everyone was excited about and you know we're hugely grateful for the support that the public had shown us, and actually for us to be able to share that joy and appreciation with the public, I felt was really important," she shared, adding that "Equally it was coupled with a newborn baby, and inexperienced parents, and the uncertainty of what that held, so there were all sorts of mixed emotions."

"All sorts of mixed emotions."

The now-iconic images of The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge exiting the hospital with their firstborn have gone down in history, but so has Kate's bravery that day.

There's been a lot written about whether those pictures put pressure on other moms who might not feel ready for heels and blowouts right after giving birth, but one thing critics of the photos often miss is the positive impact it had on other young women.

Yes, Kate looked beautiful, but she also looked like a woman whose body had just given birth—and the iconic images of her in that polka-dot dress taught a generation of women that the female body isn't an elastic band and that recovering from birth takes time.

"I, myself remember being really surprised when Kate Middleton came out of the hospital holding Prince George," Tina, now a mom herself and a model of postpartum realness in Mothercare's "Body Proud Mums campaign" explained last year.

Tina recalls how Kate's postpartum appearance showed her a reality society hadn't: "She had the baby bump, and I remember being surprised that your belly doesn't just go down after giving birth. I also thought how stupid I was to have ever thought it would. I guess pre-children you just have unrealistic expectations."

Tina wasn't stupid, she just hadn't been shown the truth.

So thank you, Kate, for stepping out of that hospital in 2013, despite being terrified, and showing the world your beautiful baby and your bump.


News

Despite the encouraging growth of free or subsidized preschools in some American cities, the fact remains that preschool and daycare cost about as much as rent in many areas.

But there's some good news, which is that parents who pay for preschool or daycare while they're at work may qualify for a credit that can help you save money on taxes this year. Here's what all parents should know before filing their returns.

Is preschool tuition tax-deductible?

The sum of your child's entire preschool tuition is not tax deductible, but you may be able to get something better than a deduction: a credit called the Child and Dependent Care Credit, worth up to $1,050 for one child and up to $2,100 for two or more kids.

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How do I know if I'm eligible for the Child Dependent Care Tax Credit?

There are a few criteria to be eligible for the Child and Dependent Care Credit:

  • If you have someone take care of your child so you can work or look for work
  • Your child is under the age of 13 at the end of the tax year (no age limit if they are disabled)
  • You must be able to claim your child as a dependent
  • Your filing status must be single, head of household, qualifying widow or widower with a qualifying child, or married filing jointly.

Does preschool tuition count as dependent care?

Yes, it does count if you are paying someone to take care of your child so you can work or look for work. Day camps, such as summer camps and sports camps, count as well, but overnight camps don't.

How much could I potentially get back on taxes for preschool tuition?

If you are able to claim the Child and Dependent Care Credit, you may be able to claim up to $1,050 for one child and up to $2,100 for two or more children.

The great thing about credits is they are a dollar for dollar reduction of your taxes. So if you owe taxes of $1,050 and have one child, you may qualify for a credit of up to $1,050 and wipe out the taxes you owe.

The credit is based on a sliding scale: Depending on your income, your credit is 20%-35% of your childcare expenses up to $3,000 (or $1,050), and 20%-35% of childcare expenses up to $6,000 (or $2,100) for two or more kids.

The bottom line: While this tax credit is unlikely to completely cover your child's preschool tuition for the year, don't miss out on this tax credit if you're paying for preschool or daycare for your child so that you can work. And remember to check your eligibility for other tax credits and deductions for families, including the Child Tax Credit and the Earned Income Credit.
Work + Money

Celestial baby names are flying high right now, and the brightest star of them all? Well, it's actually Luna, the name of the Roman goddess of the moon, and the Latin word for "moon."

At #23 in the US in 2019, Luna's rise has been, well, astronomical ever since it re-entered the Top 1000 in 2003, for the first time in almost a century. That was the year that Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix was first published, featuring the kooky but courageous Luna Lovegood.

The once-unique baby name has since been picked up by stylish celebrity parents such as Penelope Cruz, Uma Thurman and John Legend, and now ranks in the Top 100 in at least 18 other countries, including Australia, Chile, Denmark, France, Italy, Norway and Slovenia.

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But if Luna's meteoric rise to the top of the baby name popularity charts puts you off, here are 100 more magical, moon-inspired baby names to consider.

Baby names that mean moon

Girls' names that mean "moon" include a multitude of attractive Turkish names containing the element ay, meaning (you guessed it!) "moon." These range from rising international star Ayla to popular picks like Miray, Belinay and Aysima, which are all in the current Turkish Top 50 for girls.

Boy names that mean "moon" include dozens of dynamic Japanese names like Michika, Reito and Tsukio, which can all be formed from different kanji combinations to give various moon-related meanings.

Moon-inspired girl names

  1. Aruna: This pretty Japanese name, which can mean "moon love" (depending on the kanji characters used), is a perfect underused alternative to popular A-sandwich choices like Aria and Aurora.
  2. Esmeray: A beautiful Turkish name with the evocative meaning of "dark moon", which might appeal to lovers of rapid riser Esme.
  3. Lusine: Also spelled Lucine or Lusineh, this sophisticated Armenian choice could make for an unexpected route to Lucy or Lou.
  4. Mahina: A moon goddess in Hawaiian mythology, whose attractive name literally means "moon" in the Hawaiian language.
  5. Sasithorn: This poetic word for the moon is also used as a name in its native Thailand, pronounced "sah-see-TAWN". Sweet short form Sasi also means "moon".

And here are a few more of our favorite lunar names for girls from around the globe:

  1. Adzumi
  2. Aysel
  3. Channary
  4. Hala
  5. Indu
  6. Livana
  7. Lua
  8. Mahrukh
  9. Miray
  10. Neoma
  11. Orana
  12. Quilla
  13. Runa
  14. Saran
  15. Sihana
  16. Tsuki
  17. Vinterny
  18. Volana
  19. Zira
  20. Zulay

Moon-inspired boy names

  1. Ainar: This strong-sounding Kazakh name is actually unisex, meaning "male moon", "fire moon" or "pomegranate moon" (what a great image!).
  2. Isildur: A literary lunar name from J.R.R. Tolkien's legendarium, in which it belongs to a heroic king.
  3. Jerah: A rare Biblical boys' name with a contemporary sound, which could make for a great underused alternative to the likes of Noah and Jeremiah.
  4. Mani: Properly spelled Máni, this energetic mini name belongs to the personification of the moon in Norse mythology.
  5. Vikesh: A strong and striking Hindu name which is fairly common in India, but virtually unknown elsewhere.

And here's a selection of other great moon names for boys from around the globe:

  1. Asaki
  2. Aydemir
  3. Badar
  4. Chanchai
  5. Dal
  6. Ehaan
  7. Hilal
  8. Iyar
  9. Kamer
  10. Koray
  11. Luan
  12. Mahan
  13. Maziar
  14. Naito
  15. Nantu
  16. Qamar
  17. Rakesh
  18. Rua
  19. Zoro
  20. Zunair

Galactic moon names

We recently reported on the rise of planetary baby names, as well as of mythological names relating to the heavens, like Apollo and Zephyr: Greek gods of the sun and the west wind, respectively.

But how about the names of other moons? There are some stellar options out there, mostly drawn from myth, legend and literature—right on trend, but rarely used.

Galactic moon-inspired girl names

  1. Amalthea: A moon of Jupiter, named for the goat (or goat-keeper) who raised the infant Zeus. It would make a lovely longer form for the fashionable mini-name Thea.
  2. Calypso: A fun-filled name with a lively rhythm and musical links to the West Indies. Callie and Cleo could make for great nicknames.
  3. Leda: The name of the beautiful mother of Helen of Troy in Greek mythology is surprisingly underused, despite its simple, international appeal: it was given to just 17 baby girls in 2018.
  4. Thebe: Far rarer than Phoebe, but with the same light and simple sound, Thebe is another moon of Jupiter.
  5. Skathi: This tiny moon of Saturn is named for Skaði, the Norse goddess of winter and archery.

And here are a few more appealing faraway moon names for girls:

  1. Anthe
  2. Belinda
  3. Bianca
  4. Carme
  5. Cressida
  6. Despina
  7. Elara
  8. Galatea
  9. Helene
  10. Io
  11. Larissa
  12. Mab
  13. Miranda
  14. Ophelia
  15. Pandora
  16. Perdita
  17. Rhea
  18. Rosalind
  19. Thalassa
  20. Titania

Galactic moon-inspired boy names

  1. Ariel: This handsome Hebrew name may have become far more popular for girls in the US, thanks to a certain Little Mermaid, but it's a truly unisex choice in Israel: #4 for boys and #23 for girls in the last year on record (2016).
  2. Fenrir: The name of a monstrous wolf in Norse mythology, and of an evil werewolf in the Harry Potter books—but if Wolf itself can catch on…
  3. Hyperion: One of the Titans in Greek mythology, Hyperion lends his majestic name to another of Saturn's moons.
  4. Narvi: Also spelled Narfi, this quirky Norse mythology name belongs to the father of Nótt, the personification of the night.
  5. Umbriel: A moon of Uranus, named (along with Ariel and Belinda) for a character from Alexander Pope's The Rape of the Lock. The name was probably inspired by Latin umbra "shadow."

And here are more magical moon names for boys from myth and legend:

  1. Aegir
  2. Atlas
  3. Caliban
  4. Ferdinand
  5. Francisco
  6. Janus
  7. Loge
  8. Neso
  9. Nix
  10. Oberon
  11. Pan
  12. Prospero
  13. Proteus
  14. Puck
  15. Sao
  16. Stephano
  17. Surtur
  18. Titan
  19. Trinculo
  20. Ymir

This post by Emma Waterhouse was first published on Nameberry

Learn + Play

My son is terrified that he might win his school's reading contest. If he does, he'll be invited, with the other winners, to attend a special lunch at a local Chinese food restaurant. My son loves books. He hates Chinese food. In fact, he hates pretty much any food that isn't chicken fingers, french fries, ketchup, bagels and cream cheese, or cereal. Occasionally he'll eat a jam sandwich but only if the jam isn't homemade. He'll eat apples, but only Red Delicious. And carrots. Raw.

I know what you're thinking. I let our child dictate the menu for the entire household based on his sugary and basic likes. Except I don't. I just have a very picky eater.

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His fussiness over food has been something I've struggled with. I devoured articles on picky eaters and followed their advice to the letter. Did you know that if you present picky eaters with a certain food an average of 17 times they will finally try it because it seems "familiar"? Except he didn't.

I tried sneaking "good" food into what he would eat. Bran muffins harbored shredded zucchini. Pizza sauce hid pureed carrots. Chocolate cake was made moist with pumpkin. I felt like a cheater. And still, it didn't work. This kid has olfactory skills that would shame drug-sniffing dogs – assuming the drugs smelled like broccoli.

I model good eating. A plate loaded with organic veggies aside whole-wheat pasta, for example. Homemade bread teeming with hemp seed. Even my "bad" food is good—biodynamic wine and homemade tortilla chips.

Nope. He had none of it.

I felt inferior to friends whose toddlers nibbled shrimp or requested sushi with an adorable lisp. I envied their breezy sophistication. Their worldly and open-minded kids. I feared a life that precluded ever taking my son to a restaurant that didn't offer a kids' menu. I imagined the future people who would never date him, joking with their friends about his love of "nuggets." I imagined the jobs he wouldn't get because the executives, over lunch, would conclude he couldn't think outside the box, given that his food was served in one.

But most of all, I worried about what my son's narrow appetite said about me.

I was pedestrian. Parochial. Predictable. Picky.

It's with that realization that I was able to abandon my mission to convince, cajole, bribe, trick or otherwise coerce my child into eating food he refuses.

I ate pizza for the first time on my 19th birthday. Tried lasagna in my second year of college. And finally indulged in spaghetti and meatballs when, at 23, I was poor, studying in France and ordered the cheapest—and most recognizable—thing on the menu. I was 25 before I tried any type of ethnic food. Twenty-eight before I ate lobster. I still don't eat ketchup. Or mayonnaise. Or mustard. I'm not just anti-condiment. I also won't touch fish with their eyes intact. Liver. Tongue. The list goes on and on.

My own childhood menu consisted of bologna sandwiches (white bread, thank you very much). Saltines. Boiled potatoes. I ate hamburgers, plain. Chicken (white meat only) with no skin or sauce, broiled. Iceberg lettuce and carrots. Occasionally I would eat an apple. My brother refuses to accept I've ever been a child since I didn't eat peanut butter, "the official food of childhood," he points out.

What changed? Well, I grew up. Moved away from home. Spent time in another country renowned for its food. On my own, I began to experiment. To try, just a nibble. With no one taking inventory of what went into my mouth, I felt freer to explore and draw my own conclusions.

I'm beginning to believe my son will follow a similar path. Just the other day he tried red pepper. "Yuck," he said.

Will he someday meet me for sushi? I doubt it.

But I don't like sushi anyway.

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