10 positive parenting phrases to get your child to sleep on Christmas eve

10. "In the morning, we're going to open presents, eat breakfast and then go to Grandma's house."

phrases to get your child to sleep on Christmas

Few experiences are more magical than witnessing Christmas morning through your child's eyes. What's not so magical? Engaging in bedtime battles on Christmas Eve or waking to voices begging to open presents at 4:30 a.m. Christmas morning (especially after "Santa" was up well past midnight assembling brand-new bikes, dollhouses, play kitchens and more).

As much as you may be trying to stick to your regular routine, chances are that things aren't so routine the night before Christmas. And that's okay—it's part of what makes the season so special! Unfortunately, it can also cause kids to ramp up the resistance when you need them to do something they may not want to do like going to bed.

While nothing could be more Scrooge than threatening to keep the big guy at bay if little heads don't hit the hay, using these 10 phrases can help set the stage for a silent night:

1. "Christmas begins when the alarm clock dings."

Before the age of 7, kids have a very loose grasp on the concept of time. An alarm clock offers a more concrete way of letting them know when it's an acceptable time to get out of bed rather than simply instructing your child to wait until morning (after all, 5:00 a.m. is technically morning).

Set the alarm clock together and have your child press start so that they feel involved in the process. Remind your child that once the clock dings, Christmas begins and you can all go downstairs as a family.

2. "Let's go sledding!"

As tempting as it may be to tune in to a Christmas movie marathon, make it your mission to tire your child out on Christmas Eve. Carve out time to play outside during the day—such as taking a hike, riding bikes, sledding, having snowball fights, going ice skating, playing catch or walking around the neighborhood looking at Christmas lights. Even with all of the excitement and anticipation your child is feeling, if they're adequately exhausted at bedtime they'll soon succumb to sleep.

3. "If you wake during the night, remember to do the sleep wiggle."

Often, when kids wake at night they shuffle into your room simply because they don't know what else to do with their little bodies. Teaching your child the sleep wiggle provides a set of moves they can easily remember to help them return to sleep.

First, roll over on your tummy, grab your lovey, snuggle in and close your eyes. Be sure to practice the sleep wiggle together during the day.

4. "A good night's sleep will give you lots of energy to play with your new toys on Christmas Day!"

Use positive sleep speak at least three times during the day—especially if you have a child who struggles with sleep even when Christmas isn't around the corner. Praise your child for every successful bedtime and naptime. Saying things like, "Wow, you took such a big nap today!" or "I was so proud of you when you fell asleep on your own last night!" can make a difference.

Try naturally working positive sleep speak into your day.

5. "Alexa, set the timer for 10 minutes."

Try providing kids with plenty of warning before a transition occurs and be as clear as possible with your expectations: "When the timer goes off, we're going to walk upstairs and you're going to take a bath and get ready for bed."

6. "Let's play Zingo!"

Plan to power down all electronics one to two hours before bedtime. Research suggests that the light and stimulation from screens may interfere with the body's natural ability to fall asleep. Consider building a new tradition and playing a family-friendly board game before bed.

7. "I'll turn on the white noise machine so Santa doesn't wake you up."

With everything your child has to look forward to the next day, they may wake more easily at night or early in the morning. Using continuous white noise can help block out any sounds (like, ahem, Santa's workshop working overtime after the kids are in bed) that could cause your kid to stir.

8. "Here's a bedtime snack."

Offer sleep-inducing snacks such as warm milk, whole-grain toast with peanut butter and banana, a small bowl of oatmeal with cinnamon, or cheese and crackers. These foods contain a variety of compounds such as protein and melatonin that can help soothe them to sleep.

Bonus: If festivities during the day meant they didn't eat well at meals, a bedtime snack could help quell grumbling tummies and buy you some extra time in bed come morning.

9. "Santa will arrive after everyone's asleep."

Consider this phrasing for a more encouraging, rather than threatening ("If you don't go to sleep, Santa isn't going to come!") approach. For extra creativity points, have a family member ring a little bell outside while you're putting your little one to bed and say, "I think I hear the reindeer flying by! Let's go to sleep so Santa can stop here!"

If you don't follow the Santa tradition, try saying things like, "your body is growing so big and strong when you're sleeping," to help place sleep in a positive light and make it more appealing for your child.

10. "In the morning, we're going to open presents, eat breakfast and then go to Grandma's house."

While many children may be buzzing with excitement about Christmas Day, other kids are going to feel anxious. They know it's different from a typical day, but they may not be sure what to expect. This can be unsettling and interfere with their ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.

If this sounds like your child, take a few moments at the end of the day to talk with your child about what they can expect at Christmas. Let them know that you're available to answer any questions, talk and remind them that you'll be together all day long.

With these phrases, you'll set a clear and positive tone when it comes to your child's sleep on Christmas Eve and you may just experience a Christmas miracle: a full night of rest before a very special day.

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As you build your baby registry, look for products that go the extra mile to make your life a whole lot easier. For example, what's better than a bassinet? A bassinet that can rock by itself. And what's better than a traditional baby monitor? One that allows you to actually take a peek at your baby. Believe us when we say these upgrades can make all the difference.

Here are 10 baby gadgets that will make your life so much easier… relatively speaking, of course!

A bassinet to promote safe + sound sleep

HALO Innovations Bassinest Swivel Sleeper Essenta Series Nautical Net

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A smart swing for your baby

4moms mamaRoo 4 Bluetooth Enabled High-Tech Baby Swing - Classic

Believe it or not, many babies are born with strong opinions about how they want to be rocked, swung or shushed to calm down. With the mamaRoo's various motions and reclining positions, you'll be able to find a setting your baby loves when you need to free up your hands for a bit.


A complete travel system for car + sidewalk

Chicco Bravo Travel System - Indigo

No matter where the day takes you—or what mode of transportation you need to get there—getting a complete travel system for your baby will equip you for anything.


A swaddle you don’t have to wrestle

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What do babies and Harry Houdini have in common? A knack for breaking out of tight constraints—which can be a headache when swaddling is the best way to help promote good sleep. Thanks to a breakout-proof swaddle that allows your baby to sleep with their hands up, you don't have to work up a sweat just to get your baby comfortably swaddled.


A nursery wherever you need it

Baby Trend Lil Snooze Deluxe II Nursery Center

During the early days of parenting (when you are feeding and changing your baby around the clock), having convenient access to everything you need with a go-anywhere nursery station can save you serious time and energy.


A little help for stuffy noses

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Up until the point years down the road when your child is able to blow their own nose, the sniffles can be a real struggle—but not with a nasal aspirator that makes it easy for you to get that snot out of their nose.


A way to keep an eye on your baby

VTech 5" Digital Video Baby Monitor - VM5251

Trust us when we say you'll sleep better when you know your baby is also sleeping soundly. That's why we're so thankful for modern-day video monitors, which allow you to check in on your sleeping baby without running the risk of waking them up when you sneak in for a peek.


A bassinet for hands-free rocking

Simmons Kids Silent Auto Gliding Elite Bassinet - Odyssey

Babies are soothed by rocking motions. But what does that mean for you if you can't rock them throughout the night? With an auto-gliding bassinet, they can comfortably drift off to sleep... and continue snoozing.


An easy way to contain diaper smells

Diaper Genie Expressions Pail

Sometimes it's the little conveniences that make a big difference in the quality of your day-to-day life. That's why a great diaper pail should not be undervalued: By containing the smell, you will save yourself dozens upon dozens of trips to the garbage can.


A white noise machine that pulls double duty

Hatch Rest Sound Machine, Night Light & Time-to-Rise

A phone-controlled sound machine may be something you never considered until now, but it will be a major lifesaver for years to come, especially as it can also function as a time-to-rise clock that promotes good sleep habits for your child.


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This article was sponsored by Target. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

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Balance board

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Detective set

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Wooden doll stroller

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Sand play set

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Water play set

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Filled with sand or water, this tabletop sized activity set keeps little ones busy, quiet and happy. (A mama's ideal trifecta 😉). It's big enough to satisfy their play needs but not so big it's going to flood your floors if you bring the fun inside on a rainy day.


Mini golf set

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Fore! This mini golf set is lawn and living room ready. Set up a backyard competition or incorporate into homeschooling brain breaks that shift focus and build concentration.


Vintage scooter balance bike

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Wooden rocking pegasus

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Croquet set

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The cutest croquet set we've ever seen! With adorable animal face wooden balls and a canvas bag for easy clean up, it's also crafted to stick around awhile. Round after round, it's great for teaching kiddos math and problem-solving skills as well.


Wooden digital camera

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Wooden bulldozer toy

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Whether they're digging up sand in the backyad or picking up toys inside, kids can get as creative as they want picking up and moving things around. Even better? Its wooden structure means it's not an eye sore to look at wherever your digger drops it.


Pull-along hippo

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There's just something so fun about a classic pull-along toy and we love that they seamlessly transition between indoor and outdoor play. Crafted from solid cherry and beechwood, it's tough enough to endure outdoor spaces your toddler takes it on.


Baby forest fox ride-on

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Toddlers will love zooming around on this fox ride-on, and it's a great transition toy into traditional balance bikes. If you take it for a driveway adventure, simply use a damp cloth to wipe down the wheels before bringing back inside.


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