So you peed on the pregnancy stick and it’s telling you, “You’re
CONGRATS! ? ? ?
Before you start researching all about pregnancy, you might want to take some time to just let that news really sink in.
Here are some things that are totally normal to feel during your first trimester that no one might tell you about.
Not feeling pregnant, like, at all
So your doctor has just confirmed the news and you’re
wondering, “I should feel pregnant right?”
“I mean if there’s a human being
growing inside of me I should feel
Even if you are extremely sick—you still might not “feel” pregnant. It can be a hard thing to believe.
let me be the first to tell you, this is completely normal. Even though your body
is going through great changes it takes a little while for your brain to
register this new normal.
You might wonder every day if everything is going
well, but the truth is that not feeling anything weird is often a great
So relax and let your body do its thing. You will see that belly grow and
feel your baby soon enough.
Worrying how your life will change
Even if you’ve been waiting to have a baby for a while or you
weren’t expecting this at all, it’s okay to feel a little sad at the realization
that your life will never be the same.
I call it “mourning the pre-mama life.”
You have plenty of time after your little one is born to be grateful for your baby
and the joy he/she will bring. So take this time to get used to the idea of a
new life with a child.
You most likely have 9 months, so enjoy this time, you
will be grateful you did.
Holding your breath until the end of the first trimester
It is very likely that you or someone you know has
miscarried. So feeling nervous or afraid is completely normal, but going on with
life as normally as possible is probably the best thing you can do.
Worrying might come naturally, but it won’t help.
If you feel afraid speak to your doctor, follow through with
their recommendations and carry on. Speak your thoughts with people who love
and support you and fill yourself with positivity.
Feeling so emotional—or not at all
We have all heard of the fragile emotional state of pregnant
women, and though this might immediately happen to you, it is also so normal to
surprisingly not feel emotional at all.
While everyone who knows you’re
pregnant might expect you to break down in tears at any second—it’s okay if you don’t.
There are a lot of new changes happening in your body at the
moment and it’s okay not to understand this new you quite yet.
This is a new stage in
your life and it will take some adjusting.
Falling completely in love with a person you’ve never met
Though it may or may not happen right away, you will soon
begin to fall in love with the little person growing inside of you. You will
begin to dream and wonder what this little baby will look like and what they will
do. One day you will see that going through this pregnancy season was so worth
it, because you never knew you could love anyone you had never met, so much.
A new pregnancy will change you for the better. So just enjoy it and remind yourself, You’ve got this.