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Motherly Stories

Motherhood changes us. Celebrate the ups and downs with these honest, insightful essays about becoming—and being—a mom.

PDA: A mom and dad hugging in front of their child

Showing a little PDA in front of your kids is more than OK—it’s healthy!

It allows children to remain rooted in a healthy view of family, marriage and love.

Updated Jan. 31, 2025
upset preteen daughter hugging mom who feels like mean mom

I unapologetically embrace being a ‘mean mom’—because it’s necessary

However, setting boundaries is a necessary part of parenting.

Updated Sep. 01, 2022
new mom holding baby, wondering about maternal instinct

‘Maternal instinct’ is a myth—and parents are struggling because of it

The only way we can move beyond the myths of motherhood is to keep speaking our truth.

Updated Jul. 24, 2024
default parent mom sitting at table helping son with an activity

Moms are the ‘default parent’ because society doesn’t give us any other option

Maybe when we stop treating fathers as secondary, the needs and wants of moms won’t fall to the wayside.

Updated Sep. 08, 2022
mom hugging little girl - adoption story

What I wish I knew before adopting

2. Adjusting to our new normal takes time

Updated Jan. 17, 2023
two little girls hugging - how an introverted child can make friends

Introverted kids need friends, too

Here's how one therapist says parents can help.

Updated Aug. 13, 2024
mother done having babies laying in bed with adolescent son

I’m done having babies, and I wasn’t ready for the grief

Grief over the empty nest syndrome. Of not being needed in the same way. Of having to rediscover who I am apart from children.

Updated Aug. 30, 2022
young happy family sitting on couch - news about student loan forgiveness

The student loan forgiveness is a game-changer for me, my family and our future

Not everyone agrees with Biden's plan to forgive student loans, but for young families trying to survive in the US, it's a huge step forward.

Updated Oct. 31, 2022
Mom taking photo of young daughter with tweet about Wren Eleanor controversy

Why the Wren Eleanor controversy makes parents so uncomfortable

That family photo we can’t wait to share on social media might not be something our child wants shown to the world.

Updated Aug. 30, 2022
two daughters kissing mom on cheek - changing mom role

To the mama struggling to evolve alongside her kids

Some days you might feel lost, but you are still here.

Updated Aug. 27, 2022
mom snuggling baby

My breastfeeding journey ended abruptly—and I wasn’t prepared for the grief that followed

This was a sudden loss of something both beautiful and painful that had become deeply ingrained into my identity as a woman and a mother

Updated Sep. 26, 2022
happy couple sitting on hammock with child - thank you godparents

To the godparents who love our children like their very own

Perhaps we don’t show our appreciation enough, but you are an essential part of our family’s support system—and we don’t know what we’d do without you.

Updated Sep. 08, 2022
newborn baby wearing a hospital band clutching mom's finger

How my baby’s NICU journey changed me as a mom

I did what they told me for years I couldn't do. I got pregnant and gave birth to our little girl. And yet, it wasn't the redemption story I'd imagined in my mind.

Updated Aug. 27, 2022
stressed out mom breastfeeding with her head in her hand

What I wish I had known about the emotional adjustment to motherhood

First, it will be hard in ways you never expected.

Updated Oct. 13, 2023
tired mom holding newborn while on parental leave

Companies are cutting parental leave—why doesn’t the U.S. value families?

We are raising the next generation of humans. Let’s start treating that responsibility with the respect and support that it deserves.

Updated Aug. 29, 2022
three little girls playing together showing a cousin bond

Cousins are a priceless gift that keeps on giving

The cousin bond is such a gift, and I will do whatever I can to nurture this bond for my kids.

Updated Aug. 27, 2022
black and white photo of little boy sitting with his head in his arms

We all want our kids to ‘be happy’—but what if they’re not?

I want my kid to be happy, but I also want him to experience the range of emotions that life offers. And I want him to be able to talk about those experiences with me.

Updated Aug. 27, 2022
stay at home mom and baby

We need to admit that the ‘choice’ to be a stay at home mom is a privilege not all moms get

"The price of childcare is a burden on many American families. With costs eclipsing $1,000 a month (per kid!), childcare accounts for roughly 21% of the US median income for a family of three."

Updated Sep. 20, 2023
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