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Did Justin Timberlake + Jessica Biel just welcome their second child?

Media reports suggest the couple now have a second baby.

Did Justin Timberlake + Jessica Biel just welcome their second child?
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On Sunday the Daily Mail ran a story about Hollywood parents Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake, suggesting Biel gave birth to the couple's second child earlier this week. The headline reads: "Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake become parents for a second time as the actress, 38, gives birth to a baby boy following a top-secret pregnancy."

Smaller websites are picking up the story, illustrating an issue with both internet culture and how our wider society treats parents: No parent owes strangers their pregnancy, birth or adoption story.

That's true if you're a pregnant person just trying to buy groceries without a random fellow shopper trying to touch your stomach, or a mom who is tired of people on the playground asking if your adopted or multi-racial children are really yours. It's also true if you happen to be one of the most famous couples on the planet.

The tabloid story has not been confirmed by Biel or Timberlake. Which means it's not news, it's just speculation. And it's a symptom of two huge problems in our society, in which rumors become "facts" and women's bodies and choices are seen as public property.

We love it when celebrities post pregnancy or birth announcements to Instagram or blast their news on a magazine cover. That's something worthy of celebrating. We're celebrating the celebrity's growing family with them, as we would if a friend announced their pregnancy or birth.

But when it happens this way, when media outlets take the choice to make the announcement away from the parents, it sucks. It's kind of like if your cousin announced your pregnancy on Facebook before you could. That really happens, and it hurts moms. And it happens in part because stories like this one about Timberlake and Biel create a culture where people don't think twice about posting about someone else's pregnancy.

There are countless reasons why people choose to keep their pregnancies to themselves. They can be worried about repercussions at work, worried about pregnancy loss, worried about judgement or they could just want their privacy. And that's okay. People who are welcoming a new child into their lives (whether it's through pregnancy, surrogacy, adoption or fostering) don't owe the world an explanation. They only owe their child a safe and secure homecoming.

That's what celebrities are trying to do when they keep their baby news to themselves. We should respect that. It will help all moms (famous or not) if we normalize respecting parents' choices.

This is how we’re defining success this school year

Hint: It's not related to grades.

In the ever-moving lives of parents and children, opportunities to slow down and reflect on priorities can be hard to come by. But a new school year scheduled to begin in the midst of a global pandemic offers the chance to reflect on how we should all think about measures of success. For both parents and kids, that may mean putting a fresh emphasis on optimism, creativity and curiosity.

Throughout recent decades, "school success" became entangled with "academic achievement," with cases of anxiety among school children dramatically increasing in the past few generations. Then, almost overnight, the American school system was turned on its head in the spring of 2020. As we look ahead to a new school year that will look like no year past, more is being asked of teachers, students and parents, such as acclimating to distance learning, collaborating with peers from afar and aiming to maintain consistency with schooling amidst general instability due to COVID.

Despite the inherent challenges, there is also an overdue opportunity to redefine success during the school year by finding fresh ways to keep students and their parents involved in the learning process.

"I always encourage my son to try at least one difficult thing every school year," says Arushi Garg, parenting blogger and mom of a 4-year-old. "This challenges him but also allows me to remind him to be optimistic! Lots of things in life are hard, and it's important we learn to be positive during difficult times. Fostering a sense of optimism allows kids to push beyond what they thought possible, like biking without training wheels or reading above their grade level."

Here are a few mantras to keep in mind this school year:

Quality learning matters more than quantifying learning

After focusing on standardized measures of academic success for so long, the learning environment this next school year may involve more independent, remote learning. Some parents are considering this an exciting opportunity for their children to assume a bigger role in what they are learning—and parents are also getting on board by supporting their children's education with engaging, positive learning materials like Highlights Magazine.

As a working mom, Garg also appreciates that Highlights Magazine can help engage her son while she's also working. She says, "He sits next to me and solves puzzles in the magazine or practices his writing from the workbook."

Keep an open mind as "school" looks different

Whether children are of preschool age or in the midst of high school, "going to school" is bound to look different this year. Naturally, this may require some adjustment as kids become accustomed to new guidelines. Although many parents may wish to shelter our kids from challenges, others believe optimism can be fostered through adversity when everyone is committed to adapting to new experiences.

"Honestly, I am yet to figure out when I will be comfortable sending [my son] back [to school]," says Garg. In the meantime, she's helping her son remain connected with friends who also read Highlights Magazine by encouraging the kids to talk about what they are learning on video calls.

Follow children's cues about what interests them

For Garg, her biggest hope for this school year is that her son will create "success" for himself by embracing new learning possibilities with positivity.

"Encouraging my son to try new things has given him a chance to prove that he can do anything," she says. "He takes his previous success as an example now and feels he can fail multiple times before he succeeds."

There's no denying that this school year will be far from the norm. But, perhaps, we can create a new, better way of defining our children's success in school because of it.

This article was sponsored by Highlights. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

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