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Remember when hitting the beach meant throwing a towel, a water bottle, and your phone into a cute straw bag and spending the day relaxing in the sun and sand? 🤣

These days, going to the beach with the kiddos in tow can be a bit more... complicated. But we think it can also be a lot more magical, too. There are few things more memorable—or more adorable—than watching your babe dip their feet into the ocean for the first time or crawl happily through the sand. And although they might not be as relaxing as they once were, even science has proven that vacations make your kids happy long after they are over.

We've found the best way to conquer a beach day with our babes is to always come prepared. So if you're hitting the beach with your baby this year, mamas, don't stress—we've got you covered!

Here are the 16 things to pack to make your summer beach adventure a success.

1. Super easy beach tent

kids beach tent

Finding a shady spot for baby is key to a great day at the beach, but we'd be lying if we said we hadn't struggled with finding a beach tent that doesn't require an engineering degree to set up. Until we found this cabana—it's light, easy to carry, and 100% foolproof.

$58.99 (Regularly $99.00)

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2. The (super gorgeous) towel

Brooklinen Hammam Beach Towel

Brooklinen's new line of easy breezy Hammam towels are exactly what you want to bring to the beach with you this summer. Woven from Turkish cotton, but lined with terrycloth on the backside, the towels are super soft but also dry fast. And with their on-trend tassels, you're gonna be the hippest mama on the sand.

$65+

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3. Beach tote for *all* the things

Ev1 From Ellen Degeneres Large Beetroot Pink Beach Tote

Is there anything worse that a bag full of sand on a beach day? Well, yes, there are worse things, lol… but it is really annoying! Cure that problem with this mesh beach bag from Ev1 (Ellen Degeneres' line with Walmart) that is super cute in this bright neon hue and super cheap at this insane price.

$7.00 (Regularly $12.00)

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4. Cooler

yeti cooler

Feeling like you want to transport your fridge to the shoreline... just in case? We hear you, babies are demanding and fickle—sometimes they want grapes, sometimes they want yogurt, sometimes they want cheese sticks! Be armed with all of the possibilities by bringing Yeti's Tundra Haul cooler to the beach with you. Yeti is the granddaddy of luxe coolers and this newest version has two ultra-tough, puncture-proof wheels that can take on sand, rocky terrains, rugged trails and more—all while keeping up to 45 cans of beer (er, juice boxes and bottles) or 55 pounds of ice at freezer-esque temps.

$399.00

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5. Sun bonnet

Primary Sun Bonnet

A sun bonnet is a must-have for your day at the beach, and this one from Primary is perfect for not only keeping the sun out of baby's eyes but also protecting them thanks to its UPF 50 protection.

$15.00

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6. Minimalist beach toys

Quut Ballo

Stashing a few toys in your bag will make sure your little ones stay busy at the beach all day. We can't get enough of this modern, minimalist twist on the traditional beach bucket—it makes collecting and pouring water so much fun!

$19.99

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7. Wagon to get the kids from point A to B

Veer

Throw your towels, totes, buckets—and, oh yeah, your babes!—in here and your trip from the car to the sand will be smooth sailing. (And don't worry if a little sea spray gets on Veer, it's water-resistant!)

$599.00

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8. Water-resistant beach blanket

water-resistant beach blanket

Confession: We are obsessed with these mats. Super easy to wipe clean and perfect for setting up a sand-free spot on the beach, these blankets have countless other uses when you're not spending the day at the sea. The best part? They come with a convenient storage bag!

$29.58 (Regularly $40.00)

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9. Comfy + absorbent poncho

kids beach poncho

If wrangling your little one into a towel doesn't sound like a fun way to spend your beach day, a poncho is the perfect solution. These bamboo + cotton beauties are ultra-soft, ultra-absorbent, and quick drying, so your littles will be warm in no time. They even feature a pouch pocket just the right size for storing all of their beach treasures.

$42.00

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10. The best sunscreen for parents

lar roche-posay sunscreen milk

When you go to beach with baby, you're not likely to spend much time sunbathing. But you still need a superior sunscreen to protect you from the harsh rays and La Roche Posay's Anthelios Melt-In Sunscreen Milk is one of the safest on the market. With an SPF 60, it recently scored a perfect score (100!) from Consumer Reports for the fifth year in a row.

$21.99

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11. And the best (mineral-based!) sunscreen for baby

Sun Blocz baby

We love mineral-based sunscreens for their safety + coverage, but they can often be tough to apply. Not the case with this one from Sun Blocz! It goes on easily and is perfect for sensitive baby skin. Water-resistant for 80 minutes, it's also reef-safe and protects babies and kids from both UVA and UVB rays. Oh, and it's minty eucalyptus smell is divine, too!

$23.99

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12. Reusable swim diaper

Although disposable swim diapers are certainly an option, we think reusable ones are the better bet for both the environment and for your wallet. (They're pretty darn cute, too.) This one features snug-fitting legs to prevent leaks and comes in an assortment of great colors.

$10.00

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13. Stainless steel water bottle

hydro flask water bottle

You know what will set off a baby tantrum fast? Sun-warmed water in their sippy cup. Keep a stash of icy cold H20 for the whole family in non-toxic BPA-free Hydro Flask's 24-ounce water bottle, which keeps liquids cold for 24 hours.

$34.95

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14. A wet bag (or two)

wet bags

Wet bags are perfect for storing drenched, sandy bathing suits, but they're also great for containing snacks, packing an extra set of clothes, or more. We like to have a few in our beach bag for whatever the day may bring!

$10.99

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15. Virtually indestructible sunglasses

kids sunglasses

Worried about what will happen if you hand your toddler a pair of sunglasses? With these shatter-resistant + ultra-flexible frames, you won't have to. They're not only great at keeping your little one's eyes safe from the sun's harmful rays, but they're virtually impossible to break. (We know, we tried!)

$22.99

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16. Classic baby powder

#Momhack alert: Rubbing sandy skin with baby powder is an easy, effective way to remove sand from your skin! We always stash a bottle in our bag for a day at the beach, especially when there are sand-loving littles in tow.

$4.00

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There are certain moments of parenthood that stay with us forever. The ones that feel a little extra special than the rest. The ones that we always remember, even as time moves forward.

The first day of school will always be one of the most powerful of these experiences.

I love thinking back to my own excitement going through it as a child—the smell of the changing seasons, how excited I was about the new trendy outfit I picked out. And now, I get the joy of watching my children go through the same right of passage.

Keep the memory of this time close with these 10 pictures that you must take on the first day of school so you can remember it forever, mama:

1. Getting on the school bus.

Is there anything more iconic than a school bus when it comes to the first day of school? If your little one is taking the bus, snap a photo of them posed in front of the school bus, walking onto it for the first time, or waving at you through the window as they head off to new adventure.

2. Their feet (and new shoes!)

Getting a new pair of shoes is the quintessential task to prepare for a new school year. These are the shoes that will support them as they learn, play and thrive. Capture the sentimental power of this milestone by taking photos of their shoes. You can get a closeup of your child's feet, or even show them standing next to their previous years of first-day-of-school shoes to show just how much they've grown. If you have multiple children, don't forget to get group shoe photos as well!

3. Posing with their backpack.

Backpacks are a matter of pride for kids so be sure to commemorate the one your child has chosen for the year. Want to get creative? Snap a picture of the backpack leaning against the front door, and then on your child's back as they head out the door.

4. Standing next to a tree or your front door.

Find a place where you can consistently take a photo year after year—a tree, your front door, the school signage—and showcase how much your child is growing by documenting the change each September.

5. Holding a 'first day of school' sign.

Add words to your photo by having your child pose with or next to a sign. Whether it's a creative DIY masterpiece or a simple printout you find online that details their favorites from that year, the beautiful sentiment will be remembered for a lifetime.

6. With their graduating class shirt.

When your child starts school, get a custom-designed shirt with the year your child will graduate high school, or design one yourself with fabric paint (in an 18-year-old size). Have them wear the shirt each year so you can watch them grow into it—and themselves!

Pro tip: Choose a simple color scheme and design that would be easy to recreate if necessary—if your child ends up skipping or repeating a year of school and their graduation date shifts, you can have a new shirt made that can be easily swapped for the original.

7. Post with sidewalk chalk.

Sidewalk chalk never goes out of style and has such a nostalgic quality to it. Let your child draw or write something that represents the start of school, like the date or their teacher, and then have them pose next to (or on top of) their work.

8. In their classroom.

From first letters learned to complicated math concepts mastered, your child's classroom is where the real magic of school happens. Take a few pictures of the space where they'll be spending their time. They will love remembering what everything looked like on the first day, from the decorations on the wall to your child's cubby, locker or desk.

9. With their teacher.

If classrooms are where the magic happens, teachers are the magicians. We wish we remembered every single teach we had, but the truth is that over time, memories fade. Be sure to snap a photo of your child posing with their teacher on the first day of school.

10. With you!

We spend so much time thinking about our children's experience on the first day of school, we forget about the people who have done so much to get them there—us! This is a really big day for you too, mama, so get in that photo! You and your child will treasure it forever.

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Brooklyn based stay-at-home dad Mike Julianelle, also known as Dad and Buried online, shared a brutally honest post on Instagram recently that has gone viral. In it he describes how being a stay-at-home parent is really hard, especially during the summer when the kids need to stay entertained in the long hot days in the city.

The post also goes into something that struck a chord with many stay-at-home parents: not having a choice. Many of the over 500 comments the photo has received touch upon how stressful and draining being the parent at home with the kids all day can be.

The post reads:

"It's day two of my summer as a stay-at-home dad and I've already lost it on my kids.

Actually, I lost it at day 1.5. I'm not cut out for this.

I knew it 6 years ago when I did it for the first time, I knew it a month ago when it was looming again, I knew it yesterday when things were going well, and I definitely knew it today when I yelled at my 8yo and carried him to another room because he wouldn't stop complaining about something he actually wanted to do.

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I don't want to be a stay-at-home parent. I don't want to have to find ways to fill my kids' days all summer. I don't want to plan, I don't want to pack stuff, I don't want to herd them places, I don't want to go places.

I don't have the temperament, I don't have the patience, I don't have the interest.

I also don't have a choice.

Circumstances being what they are, and summer being what it is, someone has to stay home with my kids all day. Mom and Buried has done it for years, and now she's working and I'm not, so I'm back in the saddle. Reluctance (and unsuitability) aside, I have no choice but to get better at it.

They don't need to know how stressed I am, they don't deserve a dad who's grumpy and frustrated before the day has even begun, and most of all, they don't deserve a boring summer.

Summer is sacred. And it's usually Mom and Buried's territory. But it's on me now.

No, we might not be able to send them to camp or take them on fancy trips, but that doesn't mean there aren't things to do. And it's on me to do them. More than that, it's on me to do them with a smile on my face. Or at least without constantly yelling at them.

So far, things aren't going so great. But there's nowhere to go but up!

This is one of the primary challenges of parenting. Not letting your grownup stress impact your kids' childhood innocence. We all have struggles, and sometimes the toll they take is going to manifest itself, often in ways you don't even realize.

I guess the good news is: I do realize it. Which makes it even more crucial that I manage it, and do whatever I can to prevent my kids from catching on.

I've gotta fake it until *they* make it. But what else is new?"

Shout out to this SAHD for his honest, and to all the stay-at-home parents for the hard work they do, all day, everyday.

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The sound of my youngest son's wailing filled the air. It was a meltdown of epic proportions. As his screeches pierced my ears and my eyes rested on his angry face, a thought flashed into my mind: I wonder if I will ever reach a sweet spot in parenting.

I like to imagine that somewhere in my future is a magical age where the daily demands of parenting lessen and I will finally have it (mostly) all figured out. It seems I have been waiting for and wishing for this "easy" time since the first few weeks of motherhood.

When my oldest was a newborn and I was fumbling my way through sleep-deprivation, I just knew as soon as he started sleeping through the night, then motherhood would be so much easier.

When he finally did master sleeping longer stretches, he figured out how to roll over. He would roll one way and get stuck. I would flip him back, and he would be good for about five minutes and then get stuck again. I just knew as soon as he was able to roll back over the other way, then motherhood would be so much easier.

After months of nursing, and then pumping, and then bottle-feeding, I just knew that once he was eating solid foods, motherhood would be so much easier because he would sleep better, and I wouldn't have the enormous mountain of pump parts and bottles to clean each night.

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Then he started to eat solid foods, and meal times were so messy and I quickly grew tired of constantly cleaning his highchair and the floor and the wall. I just knew once he could eat on his own, then motherhood would be so much easier.

I carried him everywhere because he couldn't yet crawl, and my arms and back would ache. I just knew that once he could crawl motherhood would be so much easier.

And then he did start to crawl, and suddenly nothing was off-limits. I just knew once he was older and I wouldn't have to worry about him falling down the stairs or jamming a toy into a light socket, then motherhood would be so much easier.

Then he started to walk, then run, and I worried about him running away from me in the store, running into a parking lot, or tripping on his wobbly legs and doing a faceplant into the sidewalk. I just knew that when he was older and better able to listen and communicate, motherhood would be so much easier.

Then he started to talk and protest, and have very strong opinions about everything and the meltdowns began. I just knew as soon as we were done with this age, motherhood would be so much easier.

As my sons have grown, each stage has brought new joys, but also new challenges. Some aspects of parenting have become easier, and others have become harder.

So does this parenting "sweet spot" I have conjured up in my mind even exist?

Do I just have to be patient and it will arrive one day out of the blue when my sons reach a certain age or I gain the perfect amount of parenting wisdom?

I kept thinking about this as my son calmed down and pressed his tired little body into my own. I gazed down onto his tear-streaked cheeks. I brushed the wispy strands of his hair with my fingertips. I paused at that moment to really soak him up as he cuddled on my lap. I let the tension of the previous minutes fade away.

And a new thought entered my mind. "I'm already in a sweet spot, right here and now. I don't need to wait for one."

Parenthood will probably never be "easy." But it is pretty sweet, nonetheless.

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We can hardly believe it's back to school season. Whether it's your little's first day of preschool (😭) or they're entering another grade in elementary school, it's important to get them a backpack they'll love to carry—and one that can haul all of their supplies.

From bags that will last kids for years to fun ones that let their personalities shine through, we've rounded up some of our favorite backpacks that are sure to be theirs as well.

(Pro tip: Choose a few that you love, then let them pick out their favorite!)

1. SoYoung Toddler Backpack, Amazon

backpack for kids

These bags are made from natural linen and exclusively designed for grade school. They're machine washable and feature a chest clip for extra support if they carry home lots of books.

Price: $39.95

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2. Jansport Superbreak Backpack, Rack Room Shoes

best backpacks for kids

The "OG" of backpack brands, Jansport makes durable classic designs that can withstand the wear and tear of the school year. A front panel with a built-in organizer will keep elementary kids and middle schoolers organized, while the padded shoulder straps will keep them comfortable. The best part? The price (and a few super fun patterns)!

Price: $36

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3. Mini Kane Printed Canvas, State Bags

best kids backpacks

Every bag is custom-made and hand drawn and it's roomy enough to carry your child through elementary school. This company was founded to help local children in need so for every bag purchased, STATE will support an American child in need in the way they need it most.

Price: $60

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4. Land's End ClassMate Medium Backpack, Land's End

lands end backpacks

This classic bag is great for preschool and elementary. With padded back panels and shoulder straps, it provides optimal comfort and is water-repellent. It has reinforced stitching so it'll hold up just fine if your little tosses it or drags it around. And, we can't resist personalizing it with a monogram so you always know which bag is your kid's.

Price: $23.97

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5. Skip Hop Llama Insulated Toddler Backpack, Target

backpacks for kids

Now, who wouldn't want a llama backpack?! We adore Skip Hop's toddler backpack line—kiddos can pick out their favorite animal, like a unicorn, ladybug, or bee. They're ideal for preschool, where children won't bring a ton of folders or binders home. The insulated front pouch is the perfect spot to store snacks.

Price: $19.99

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6. Herschel Supply Co. Survey Kids Backpack, Amazon

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Perfectly sized for kids aged 3 to 4, this backpack comes in 29 color options, allowing your little full creativity. The front features magnetic strap closures, but has a hidden zippered storage sleeve for important items.

Price: $23.30

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7. Wildkin 12 Inch Backpack, Amazon

backpacks for kids

These backpacks offer so many design options and the 12 inch one is ideal for daycare through preschool. It has an insulated front pocket big enough to store lunch or snacks for the day—and can be embroidered so your little doesn't get confused about which bag is theirs.

Price: $17.99

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8. Adidas Girls Court Lite II Backpack, Rack Room Shoes

girls backpacks

You may wish he still wanted a backpack with a truck or dinosaur pattern, but by first grade your babies are going to be all about the "big kid" sports brand. And trust us when we say Adidas is king.

Price: $35

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9. Mackenzie Critter Unicorn Backpack, Pottery Barn Kids

best kids backpack

When you think of Pottery Barn Kids, you likely picture home decor and nursery furniture. But, they have some incredibly durable and functional backpacks for kids. The critter collection comes in two sizes (we recommend the small for preschool and large for kindergarten and beyond) and a variety of designs so kids can have fun showing off their style. Bonus: They have amazing personalization options!

Price: $29.50-$64.50

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10. Jansport Big Student Backpack, Rack Room Shoes

best kids backpack

This backpack is pretty much everyone's daughter personified, which means she's going to totally *heart* the hilarious cupcake and sprinkles pattern (it will be like her birthday every day of the year!). We love that there's not one but two main compartments and not one but two front zippered pockets. Oh, and the side mesh pocket that is oh-so-perfect for water bottles.

Price: $47.99

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11. Roxy Morning Light Small Backpack, Roxy

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For the kid who's heading into big kid school, this nylon covered bag is big enough for folders, lunch boxes and even a change of clothes. It has adjustable padded shoulder straps and a back panel to ensure comfort.

Price: $27.99

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12. Fortnite Multiplier Backpack, Rack Room Shoes

fortnite backpack

If Fortnite hasn't hit your household, well, get ready! This one is sure to make your kiddo happy and ensure they're dancing the whole way to school.

Price: $35

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They say necessity is the mother of invention, and when temperatures soar as high as they are this summer, it's necessary that we get little ones out of the backseat as soon as possible.

But parents are only human, and as much as we think we could never forget our babies in the car, it does happen. Research suggests high temperatures don't help, as heat stress can impact our cognitive function.

According to the National Safety Council (NSC), 2018 was the worst year in history for kids being left in hot cars. The NSC, other safety advocacy organizations and lawmakers are encouraging auto makers to embrace technology to create backseat alert systems in new vehicles, but such systems aren't standard yet.

Luckily, there are several innovative car seat apps and products parents can use to remind them when there's a little one in the backseatand you might already have one of them installed.

Here are 5 car seat apps that lessen the risk of leaving little ones behind:

1. Waze

Waze

If you use Waze to help you beat traffic, you can set it up to remind you to empty the backseat when you reach your destination. Simply turn on the "Child Reminder" feature in your settings to start getting the notifications. It even allows you to add a custom message, so you can write a sweet note about your baby.

2. Kars 4 Kids Safety App

Kars 4 Kids

If you're not a Waze fan but are an Android user, you can try the Kars 4 Kids Safety App on Google Play. It connects to your car's Bluetooth so that when you (and your phone) leave the car, an alarm goes off. You can add your child's photo to fully customize your reminder.

3. The Backseat App

The Backseat App is available on iPhones and Android, and because it doesn't rely on Bluetooth, it's useful to parents who are driving vehicles that don't have that technology on board.

Developed by an Arizona father, this app can be used not only in the U.S., but in Australia, Canada, France, Mexico, New Zealand and the U.K. Using GPS, it reminds the driver to check the backseat when the car is parked, and if the driver doesn't turn off the alerts to their phone, the app sends a messages to three pre-determined contacts. The message will let them know that there's a possibility that a child's been left in a hot car via email and text message and send the location of your vehicle, along with your car's identifying characteristics.

4. Built-in Car Seat Alarms

Cybex

Car seat manufacturers, like Evenflo and Cybex, offer built in alarm functions thanks to innovative chest clips that don't just protect kids in the event of an accident, but also if they're accidentally left in the vehicle.

Motherly loves the Cybex Sirona M SensorSafe Convertible Car Seat, as it's "the smartest convertible car seat we've ever tried." The chest clip that alerts parents when: the car is too hot (or cold), if the child has been in the car seat longer than recommended, if they've managed to unclip it while the car is moving, or if a child is left behind in the backseat—for example, if the car is turned off or the driver's cell phone has left the vehicle, but the kid is still clipped in. If the driver doesn't respond to an alert about a child left behind, emergency contacts are alerted.

5. Bee-Alert Child Auto Alarm

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If you've already got a car seat and aren't keen on apps (or if your child has caregivers who aren't) the Bee-Safe Child Auto Alarm is a low-cost car reminder system ($29.99 on Amazon) that alerts drivers to the possibility of children both in the back seat and behind the vehicle. If your kiddo rides with someone who does not use a smartphone, this innovative alarm is a good bet.

No matter what you choose, having back up while driving the kids around in the heat is a a cool invention. And these innovative apps and products are likely just the beginning of a wave of designs dedicated to helping parents remember who is in the backseat.

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According to Arizona State University associate professor of psychology Gene Brewer, "memory failures are remarkably powerful, and they happen to everyone." He continues, "there is no difference between gender, class, personality, race or other traits. Functionally, there isn't much of a difference between forgetting your keys and forgetting your child in the car."

Parents shouldn't feel guilty about being human, but if there are apps and products that can help reduce the risk, they're worth checking out.

Motherly is your daily #momlife manual; we are here to help you easily find the best, most beautiful products for your life that actually work. We share what we love—and we may receive a commission if you choose to buy. You've got this.

[A version of this post was originally published July 6, 2018. It has been updated.]

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