Because being intentional with your self-care is important.
Because what a gift for them to be able to see mom in their memories.
Here’s how to break the cycle.
You're not alone.
Don’t treat recovery as a weigh station on the way to happiness, but instead as a critical component to dealing with what you’ve just been through.
From early mornings to long days to late nights, you all have been there in times of need.
It has made me anew and cracked me open in ways unimaginable.
Mom shaming has to stop
It's a wonderful time of year when we get to spend so much time with loved ones, but extended time with family isn’t always easy.
Because I know that in due time, these moments that are usually made up of just us won’t be the same anymore.
Of course you want to make the holiday magical, especially for the kids, but it doesn’t have to come at the cost of your sanity—and it definitely shouldn’t.
There are certainly times we feel an acute sense of absence, but what I have begun to realize are actually the unique benefits of our position.
I now feel like I can fully focus on whichever child I’m with, and I can even keep my mom guilt for missing the other one (mostly) at bay.
"It's one of the most challenging times to be a parent right now, and the need to feel like we can keep our children safe is stronger than ever."
This is one of many boundary lines we’ve drawn with family during the holidays.
I hope that they learn that stumbles are an important part of life.
This year, I’d rather just indulge in a non-traditional, laid back celebration while still making it meaningful and magical for my family.
That badge of honor I wore somehow now is replaced by a feeling that my ability to do multiple things at once prevents me from doing any one thing very well.
My son will know he’s loved despite his athletic abilities. He will be reminded that sports should be fun and not anxiety producing.