'Sometimes, a day off with the kids is harder than a work day,' she writes.
It's not you, mama.
But despite the challenges, Mendes isn't losing sight of what's important. "When we feel like we're just 'in it,' like all parents do during these times," she says, "we remind ourselves that these are the good times, because we're all together and we're all safe right now."
Dads spend three times as much time with their kids than previous generations.
My partner and I take turns in taking care of our kids, and it's taught me even more about parenting in the long term.
Give yourself permission to take a break, mama.
It goes beyond posting a black box today.
We are her and she is us.
They cover everything from how to talk to your kids about COVID-19 to how keep calm and manage stress.
With both of us now sick, we set the bar at survival. We took turns with the kids. We wore masks and gloves to make their food. We begged them to put themselves to bed. We tried not to seem sick, even though we took one step forward, another back.
As a working mom of six kids, I am constantly seeking new…
If we do everything for our kids, we rob them of the resiliency that children develop when they overcome obstacles.
There have been moments when it was so hard that I've wanted to run away. I know I'm not alone. I'm sure every parent has been there.
Too often, dads get a week (or less) of paternity leave before they are expected to carry on as if nothing has changed.
Raising you to be strong is magic. Teaching you to be kind is magic. Encouraging you to rest is magic. Witnessing you embrace who you truly are is magic.
This was the teaching moment. This was the moment to make it count.
Someone asked me recently what it's like to have four kids, and I paused.
3. Validate their concerns
As a parent, you're constantly navigating ups and downs, wins and losses.