My mantra now is radical acceptance. It's radical because, for me, it means defiantly and unequivocally accepting what my anxious mind tells me is unacceptable—the messy, the imperfect, the difficult.
The central message is one that every kid needs to hear: "All bodies are lovely no matter their size."
I want my mom to know that I am okay. Because things look a lot different for me since the last time I saw her.
It took me nine months to become a mother, and years to take on the label.
Cynthia Nixon went viral for talking about the impossible expectations women face. Now let's talk about motherhood, specifically.
Move over, harsh chemicals.
And it's a long list.
"You're always sort of questioning your own decisions and your own judgments and things like that. And I think that starts from the moment you have a baby," shared the Duchess.
4. Sit on the toilet and have a good cry.
Remember, you're not alone in this, you're amazing and you're rocking motherhood.
Because Mama deserves some love, too
In case you need this today, mama. ❤️
My plea for new moms is to value your own care just as much as that of your new child.
I make mistakes, hurt those I love, burn dinner and that is what makes me human.
We're constantly told to practice self-care to stave off burnout, but that prescriptive time comes at a cost—even if the cost is just guilt.
I decided to give him the spa-worthy bubble bath experience I was longing for so badly because, after all, he needed it, too.
Parenthood is not easy. And yes, you give things up you wish you didn't have to. But for me, that was only half the story.
By caring for myself I will be a better mama, a more loving wife and a happier human.
Being a great parent means we find ways to honor our other parts.
2020 is going to be different.