When I pictured a sleep consultant I envisioned a kindly woman who hid in the shadows and sang my son a lullaby whenever he stirred. In actuality, a sleep consultant is less a ninja songstress, and more head coach to your quarterback. She called the plays, I made the moves.
I didn't even know it was a thing until I was wide awake at night while everyone else peacefully slept.
Hint: the reason has to do with YOU, mama
I don't know if you've heard but pandemic insomnia is real—and it's making some moms very tired. Me. I'm some moms.
Her son is 19 months old and his mama is so tired.
Sometimes we scream because we don't feel heard. Sometimes we scream because the stress inside feels like it has to come out. Sometimes we scream because the physical demands of motherhood are so heavy that we have to moan and find a way to give voice to the struggle.
At the end of the day, we’re all just trying to decide what’s best for our own children—and ourselves.
6. Write down your ta-da list.
Here's how to take care of yourself when the baby is Up. All. Night.
A sleep consultant's survival guide for the 8-month sleep regression.
When I heard them say, "Mama" for the first time.
Perfect timing, but kids can only call until April 30.
I am here to listen, comfort—and not judge.
Being quarantined and unexpectedly homeschooling is adding even more to the mental load of motherhood. Here's how to get rest, mama.
I'm learning to accept that likes, loves and share reactions don't define my parenting or who I am as a person.
Until I found what helped.
We have plenty of beautiful, useful toys in our home already. I have eliminated the guilt of needing more toys to please them because I know they have more than enough.
After having you, I was terrified of having another kid because I didn't think I could love someone else as much as you.
My mantra now is radical acceptance. It's radical because, for me, it means defiantly and unequivocally accepting what my anxious mind tells me is unacceptable—the messy, the imperfect, the difficult.