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One thing my dad and my husband have in common is that they are both notoriously hard to shop for —when you ask them what they might like, the reply is almost always the dreaded, “Huh, I really can’t think of anything.” Sigh.

In reality, though, nobody wants to be unthought of, especially on a day that’s supposed to be honoring them. That’s when it dawned on me — dads just want to be thought of, more than anything else. It’s not so much that they want some thing, so much as that they want some reminder that we know them well and think of them often.

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The solution? Go with a gift that’s personal — or better yet, personalized. When someone sees their name on something, it’s like instant reassurance that they weren’t an afterthought. You clearly didn’t just go to your local department store, buy 10 of the same ties, and give one to him. His name on the item shows you made or ordered something specifically with him in mind.

There’s a plethora of personalized gifts for dad out there, but here are some of our favorites:

Our favorite personalized Father's Day gifts

J. Crew Pajamas

$59.50 $98

Classic dad style! J. Crew’s crisp cotton pajamas are soft and comfy with that timeless grandpa vibe. Add a monogram in one of two styles with a choice of 18 thread colors.

Artifact Uprising fathers day hardcover

$59

Chances are, your camera roll is already bursting with photos of his journey into Dad-dom. If you want to completely melt his heart, make your favorites into the sweetest coffee table book ever with Artifact Uprising. They’re our go-to for stunning photo gifts because you don’t even need to be a professional photographer to look like one. From the high quality paper to the custom foil title, the finished product is always perfectly polished! Prices start at $59

Funko Pop Yourself

$30

It seems like Funko has created a Pop! version of every character under the sun. With their Father’s Day-themed Pop! Yourself, you can create a version of your favorite character. Choose from millions of customization options to get his look just right and throw in accessories like a #1 Dad trophy or #1 Dad foam finger as the cherry on top.

JBL Custom Clip - Motherly

$49.95 $79.95

JBL offers personalization on many of their top-rated products, from over-ear headphones to their powerful portable speakers. They make the process super easy, allowing you to choose colors, patterns and add things like stickers and text or even opt for photos.

Personalized ‘I Am Your Father’ T Shirt

$20.99

Are there any dads out there who *haven’t* made the “I am your father” reference from ‘Star Wars’? I didn’t think so. Dad will get a huge kick out of this personalized ‘I Am Your Father’ T shirt from Etsy—and you can customize it with up to four kids’ names!

Corkcicle Whiskey Wedge Glass

$24.95

If a glass of whiskey is his favorite way to end the day, treat him to this clever design from Corkcicle. Tuck it in the freezer with the silicone form to create an ice wedge that’s optimal for whiskey chilling. Add his initials to make it extra special.

Yeti Lowball

$20

The gold standard for day drinking and coffee transporting, Yeti’s line of insulated drinkware can all be personalized with monograms, names and even custom logos. Consider his favorite drink (beer? coffee? a stiff Manhattan?) and favorite color and gift him something he’s guaranteed to reach for on the daily. Prices start at $20.

Lego - Motherly

$45

Want to really make dad feel like a hero? Create one of these awesome personalized frames from Etsy, which feature LEGO super hero figurines. One of the extra sweet things about this gift is that it lets you call out the specific personality traits that make the dad in your life so uniquely lovable.

Personalized BBQ utensils

$34.99 $49.99

This set of personalized grilling tools makes Dad’s title as grill master of the family official. Plus, I love that every time he looks down to flip a burger in the backyard, he’ll see that his hard work making meals for everyone is appreciated.

Uncommon Goods Grillmaster's Cookout Caddy

$65

Or you could offer up his own personal grilling battle station. Complete with a bottle opener on the side, it’s the most thoughtful way to keep his tools of the trade right at hand.

Personalized Apron

$42.89

I feel lucky—and genuinely grateful—that my husband is the cook in our house. Not only does that shorten my daily to-do list, but also, I love that he teaches our boys to cook, as well. This parent-child apron set is absolutely perfect for the dad who loves to grill or cook with his kiddos.

Tribute Custom Video

$35

The video montage trend peaked during the pandemic as a way for people to connect virtually, but it’s continued to be a really touching way for loved ones—especially those who live far away—to reach out. With Tribute, you can collect group video messages, email reminders to friends and family, and create montages. Sound like too much hassle? Tribute even has a concierge package, in which they handle the whole process for you. Dad will really feel the love as he opens and enjoys each message on his day. After all, sometimes all a person really wants is to hear the voices and see the faces of the ones they love most. Prices start at $35P

llbean wxed canvas duffel

$159

I started thinking of all the places my dad and husband would use this duffle bag —travel, gym, golf, etc.—and then I realized that I can’t really think of anywhere they wouldn’t use it. It’s an L.L. Bean classic that’s rugged and versatile and the monogramming will show this was truly a gift specifically for him. And, any mom who’s had to label a million things for kids’ school or camp knows it always helps to have items clearly labeled with names!

personalized brass plate

$20

Does the dad in your life have a favorite spot at the table? Engrave this brass plate from Things Remembered with “Dad’s Spot” and attach it to his chair, so that he—and everyone else—knows he’s got a meaningful place in your home.

Wonderbly

$36.99

Make the dad in your family cry this Father’s Day—in a good way! What’s extra special about these personalized books is that they feature both daddy and child, making them both see just how loved they are. Get the tissues ready!

Art of Yellow Custom Portrait

$45

Some gifts really say, “See? I get you,” and these portraits by Art of Yellow do exactly that. With one of these, you can turn dad into a cartoon character for a totally one-of-a-kind gift that’s also a forever conversation piece.

Personalized Golf Balls

$15.95

I love it when the thing that makes a gift special is also what makes it more practical. That’s why I’m obsessed with these monogrammed golf balls —not only do they let golf-loving dads know they were really thought of, they also help them identify which balls are theirs in the fairway. Prices start at $15.95

Photo Engraved Wallet

$19.95

This photo engraved wallet is a beautiful way to infuse an item that Dad looks at every day with reminders of the ones he loves most. Bonus perk: If he loses his wallet somewhere, it’s that much easier for the wallet to find its way back to the rightful owner.

A version of this story was published May 21, 2021. It has been updated.