All the things that made me cry while I was pregnant

Washing the small, tiny, soon-to-be worn baby clothes. ?

All the things that made me cry while I was pregnant

If you know me well, you know I am a crier. I cry relatively easily. I cry when I am nervous, embarrassed, mad, sad, happy...It’s a good time.

So, yeah, I’m used to crying. But man, when I’m pregnant, it’s on another level. People probably think I am insane or maybe unstable. (I am neither, I swear.) But it’s all good. I’m doing okay. Just letting those emotions flow, baby. ?

I mean, what you and your body go through during pregnancy is wild. Your hormones are up and down and back and forth and basically...all over the place. So it’s no surprise that you can go from crying to laughing to snapping at your husband in a matter of minutes (sorry, dear).

It can definitely be frustrating—especially when you feel like you’re going crazy, but it can also be really funny (in the in-between moments when you are not crying, of course.)

So I decided to recount some of the most ridiculous things I’ve cried about during my three pregnancies. Because why not take a trip down the embarrassing-crying-memory-lane?

Food related incidents

When my husband threw away perfectly good cookie dough that was waiting for me to pop in the oven.

When I realized my husband took the good leftovers to work for lunch. I had been thinking about them all morning!

When they brought out the meal I didn’t order and had to wait for my correct order.

When I wanted a specific ice cream but the ice cream place was closed.

When I sat in the drive-through line at McDonald’s because I wanted it so badly but also felt slightly shameful for feeding it to my baby. ?

When I woke up and really wanted a snack in the middle of the night, but didn’t want to get up.

When I had to fork over the last cookie to my toddler to avoid a tantrum. (Although, I basically had a tantrum myself...)

New baby I-can’t-handle-the-cuteness thoughts

Watching my husband paint the nursery.

Washing the small, tiny, soon-to-be worn baby clothes.

Thinking of what life will be like when the baby gets here—we are all so excited!

When I picture my older girls holding our new baby or how she’ll lay on my chest or what my husband will look like holding her.

When I held my new niece. ?

Seeing the crib set up and the diaper station ready and the beautiful swaddle blankets folded—basically watching our dream become a reality.

Our Freshly Picked moccasins arriving in the mail!

Moments of frustration

When I forgot my headphones for a work call I had to take in the car while driving and instead had to do it on speakerphone which woke up my peaceful napping toddler.

When I stubbed my toe on my bedpost. OUCH.

When I couldn’t see over my belly and tripped over blocks. And a baby Elsa doll. And a doctor’s kit... ?

When I realized I never took meat out for dinner and then had very little options.

When I broke my phone. And couldn’t find my keys. And forgot my doctor’s appointment. And basically couldn’t remember anything.

When I legitimately couldn’t get out of bed without my husband giving me a boost.

Watching my body grow and change and stretch—I cried tears of both shock and awe.

Emotional overload

Finding out I was pregnant. (I mean, let’s start at the very beginning...)

Watching the University of Phoenix commercials. #Tearjerkers

Every single episode second of Parenthood. Those Bravermans really get me!

While watching Inside Out with my toddler. And Big Hero 6. And The Lion King. And Up. And Finding Nemo...

When I figured out there were no more episodes of Hart of Dixie once I finished binge watching seasons 1-4. Bring it back! Why did you do this to me, Rachel Bilson?!

Anytime Coldplay’s ‘Fix You’ comes on my iTunes shuffle. ??

Anything Shonda Rhimes makes, says, and/or does. Are you trying to ruin me, woman?!

Reading all the beautiful essays on Motherly. Seriously. I can’t even handle my own job.

Watching pregnancy announcement videos on YouTube. Don’t do it. Just don’t

After 4 kids, this is still the best baby gear item I’ve ever purchased

I wouldn't be swooning over the BABYBJÖRN bouncer after eight years and four kids if it didn't work.

I have four kids 8 and under, so you might expect that my house is teeming with baby gear and kid toys.

But it turns out that for me, the more kids I have, the more I simplify our stuff. At this point, I'm down to the absolute essentials, the gear that I can't live without and the toys my kids actually play with. And so when a mama-to-be asks me what things are worth registering for, there are only a few must-haves on my list.

The BABYBJÖRN bouncer seat is on the top of my list—totally worth it and an absolute must-have for any new mama.

In fact, since I first splurged on my first BABYBJÖRN bouncer eight years ago (it definitely felt like a splurge at the time, but the five star reviews were really compelling), the bouncer seat has become the most-used product in our house for baby's first year.

We've actually invested in a second one so that we didn't have to keep moving ours from the bedroom to the living room when we change locations.

BABYBJÖRN bouncer bliss

baby bjorn bouncer

The utility of the seat might seem counterintuitive—it has no mechanical parts, so your baby is instead gently bounced by her own movements. In a world where many baby products are touted for their ability to mechanically rock baby to sleep, I get that many moms might not find the "no-motion" bouncer that compelling. But it turns out that the seat is quite reactive to baby's little kicks, and it has helped my kids to learn how to self-soothe.


Lightweight + compact:

The BABYBJÖRN bouncer is super lightweight, and it also folds flat in a second. Because of those features, we've frequently stored it under the couch, in a suitcase or in the back of the car. It folds completely flat, which I love.

Entertainment zone:

Is the toy bar worth it? The toy bar is totally worth it. Not only is the toy bar adorable, but it's one of the first toys that my babies actually play with once they discover the world beyond my boobs. The toys spin and are close to eye level so they have frequently kept my baby entertained while I cook or take a quick shower.

Great style:

This is not a small detail to me–the BABYBJÖRN bouncer is seriously stylish. I am done with baby gear and toys that make my house look like a theme park. The elegant European design honestly just looks good in my living room and I appreciate that parents can enjoy it as much as baby.

It's adjustable:

With three height settings that let you prop baby up to be entertained, or lay back to rest, we get years of use. And the bouncer can actually be adjusted for bigger kids and used from newborn to toddler age. It's that good.

It just works:

I wouldn't be swooning over the BABYBJÖRN bouncer after eight years and four kids if it didn't work. But I have used the seat as a safe space to put baby while I've worked (I once rocked my baby in it with my foot while I reported on a breaking news story for the Washington Post), and as a cozy spot for my second child to lay while his big brother played nearby. It's held up for almost a decade with almost-constant use.

So for me, looking back on what I thought was a splurge eight years ago, was actually one of the best investments in baby gear I ever made.

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Motherly editors’ 7 favorite hacks for organizing their diaper bags

Make frantically fishing around for a diaper a thing of the past!

As any parent knows, the term "diaper bag" only scratches the surface. In reality, this catchall holds so much more: a change of clothes, bottles, snacks, wipes and probably about a dozen more essential items.

Which makes finding the exact item you need, when you need it (read: A diaper when you're in public with a blowout on your hands) kind of tricky.

That's why organization is the name of the game when it comes to outings with your littles. We pooled the Motherly team of editors to learn some favorite hacks for organizing diaper bags. Here are our top tips.

1. Divide and conquer with small bags

Here's a tip we heard more than a few times: Use smaller storage bags to organize your stuff. Not only is this helpful for keeping related items together, but it can also help keep things from floating around in the expanse of the larger diaper bag. These bags don't have to be anything particularly fancy: an unused toiletry bag, pencil case or even plastic baggies will work.

2. Have an emergency changing kit

When you're dealing with a diaper blowout situation, it's not the time to go searching for a pack of wipes. Instead, assemble an emergency changing kit ahead of time by bundling a change of baby clothes, a fresh diaper, plenty of wipes and hand sanitizer in a bag you can quickly grab. We're partial to pop-top wipes that don't dry out or get dirty inside the diaper bag.

3. Simplify bottle prep

Organization isn't just being able to find what you need, but also having what you need. For formula-feeding on the go, keep an extra bottle with the formula you need measured out along with water to mix it up. You never know when your outing will take longer than expected—especially with a baby in the mix!

4. Get resealable snacks

When getting out with toddlers and older kids, snacks are the key to success. Still, it isn't fun to constantly dig crumbs out of the bottom of your diaper bag. Our editors love pouches with resealable caps and snacks that come in their own sealable containers. Travel-sized snacks like freeze-dried fruit crisps or meal-ready pouches can get an unfair reputation for being more expensive, but that isn't the case with the budget-friendly Comforts line.

5. Keep a carabiner on your keychain

You'll think a lot about what your child needs for an outing, but you can't forget this must-have: your keys. Add a carabiner to your keychain so you can hook them onto a loop inside your diaper bag. Trust us when we say it's a much better option than dumping out the bag's contents on your front step to find your house key!

6. Bundle your essentials

If your diaper bag doubles as your purse (and we bet it does) you're going to want easy access to your essentials, too. Dedicate a smaller storage bag of your diaper bag to items like your phone, wallet and lip balm. Then, when you're ready to transfer your items to a real purse, you don't have to look for them individually.

7. Keep wipes in an outer compartment

Baby wipes aren't just for diaper changes: They're also great for cleaning up messy faces, wiping off smudges, touching up your makeup and more. Since you'll be reaching for them time and time again, keep a container of sensitive baby wipes in an easily accessible outer compartment of your bag.

Another great tip? Shop the Comforts line on to find premium baby products for a fraction of competitors' prices. Or, follow @comfortsforbaby for more information!

This article was sponsored by The Kroger Co. Thank you for supporting the brands that supporting Motherly and mamas.

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It's science: Why your baby stops crying when you stand up

A fascinating study explains why.

When your baby is crying, it feels nearly instinctual to stand up to rock, sway and soothe them. That's because standing up to calm babies is instinctual—driven by centuries of positive feedback from calmed babies, researchers have found.

"Infants under 6 months of age carried by a walking mother immediately stopped voluntary movement and crying and exhibited a rapid heart rate decrease, compared with holding by a sitting mother," say authors of a 2013 study published in Current Biology.

Even more striking: This coordinated set of actions—the mother standing and the baby calming—is observed in other mammal species, too. Using pharmacologic and genetic interventions with mice, the authors say, "We identified strikingly similar responses in mouse pups as defined by immobility and diminished ultrasonic vocalizations and heart rate."

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