Menu

Has your due date come and gone? If so, you’re probably itching to give your body a little nudge to bring on labor and push that sweet little bundle of yours out into this world. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. As an acupuncturist specializing in fertility and pregnancy, I meet a lot of women who want my help to naturally jump start labor. Though there’s no surefire to coax that bun out of the oven (aside from being induced by a doctor, and that even can fail), there are things you can do to try and speed up the process -- as long as your body and baby are ready to cooperate, that is. You just need to make sure that you are past your due date or in the safe zone for induction.

FEATURED VIDEO

Here are 6 ways to induce labor naturally. As always, consult with your prenatal care provider and make sure you’ve got his or her okay.

1. Acupuncture & acupressure: I always tell my patient that the most important part of the labor induction is a ripe cervix -- meaning, it is soft and beginning to open. Then, and only then, is your body ready to be induced. If it isn’t ready, trying to naturally (or even chemically) induce labor can be challenging and have negative implications. Acupuncture and acupressure, which you can start doing at 37 weeks, can help move things along by assisting in cervical ripening, which means softening and opening the cervix. The best points for cervical ripening are the Spleen 6 (also known as SanYinJiao) and the Large Intestine 4 (also known as HeGu). Both practices have been recommended by midwives for cervical ripening and labor induction, and Debra Betts, a renown midwife whom I’ve had the luxury of studying with, put together this resource. For more information and personalized advice, see an acupuncturist. He or she will be able to guide you.

2. Evening Primrose Oil. Many midwives in the United States commonly prescribe EPO to ripen the cervix in a non pharmacological way (McFarlin, Gibson, O'Rear, & Harman 1999). Though I find it is way too estrogenic and hormonally disruptive, my 12 years of clinical experience do confirm that taking EPO is an effective way to prepare for labor and delivery.

3. Sex & orgasms: Sex can also help induce labor and prepare your body for labor and delivery in many ways. First, having sex throughout your pregnancy is a great way to keep healthy bloodflow to your pelvic area. Orgasms stimulate the uterus into action and trigger the release of oxytocin, which can also jump start labor (that only happens when the cervix is ripened and your body is ready to go, so don’t worry. Sex during pregnancy otherwise do not induce labor!). Finally, semen contains a high concentration of prostaglandins, which help soften the cervix.

4. Nipple stimulation: In addition to the female orgasm, nipple stimulation causes the release of oxytocin -- the labor hormone -- and can thus get labor started.

5. Dates: According to a recent study, “the consumption of date fruit in the last 4 weeks before labour significantly reduced the need for induction and augmentation of labour, and produced a more favourable, but non-significant, delivery outcome.” So, try eating 6 dates a day starting at week 36 of your pregnancy, and see how that helps.

6. Raspberry Leaf Tea: This tea is a known uterine tonic that can cause contractions. For that reason, I never recommend drinking it in pregnancy outside of the last 3 weeks. However, having a cup of red raspberry leaf tea on a daily basis from week 37 or 38 on can help move along your labor. One study also showed that women who drink raspberry leaf tea towards their due date have shorter second phases of labor compared to those who didn’t drink the tea.

Keep in mind that everyone is different, and every pregnancy is different. In other words, all of these modalities could work, but all of them could also fail. At the end of the day, baby will come when he or she is ready. We can do things to try and speed up the process, but forcefully inducing labor is something I don’t recommend.

Motherhood is a practice in learning, growing and loving more than you ever thought possible. Even as a "veteran" mama of four young sons and one newly adopted teenager, Jalyssa Richardson enthusiastically adapts to whatever any given day has in store—a skill she says she's refined through the years.

Here's what just one day in her life looks like:


Jalyssa says she learned to embrace agility throughout her motherhood journey. Here's more from this incredible mama of five boys.

What is the most challenging part of your day as a mom of five?

Time management! I want to meet each of the boys' individual needs—plus show up for myself—but I often feel like someone gets overlooked.

What's the best part of being a mom of five?

The little moments of love. The hugs, the kisses, the cuddles, the smiles... they all serve as little reminders that I am blessed and I'm doing okay.

Are there misconceptions about raising boys?

There are so many misconceptions about raising boys. I think the biggest one is that boys don't have many emotions and they're just so active all the time. My boys display many emotions and they also love to be sweet and cuddly a lot of the time.

What do you think would surprise people the most about being a mom of five?

How much I enjoy it. I never knew I wanted to be a mom until I was pregnant with my first. My desire only grew and the numbers did! I am surprised with every single baby as my capacity to love and nurture grows. It's incredible.

How do you create balance and make time for yourself?

Balance for me looks like intentional planning and scheduling because I never want my boys to feel like they aren't my first priority, but it is extremely difficult. What I try to do is not fit it all into one day. I have work days because motherhood is my first priority. I fit in segments of self-care after the kids' bedtime so I don't grow weary.

What's the biggest lesson you have learned from motherhood?

I have learned that sacrifice is actually beautiful. I was terrified of the selflessness motherhood would require, but I've grown so much through the sacrifice. There is nothing better than living for something bigger than myself.

When did you first feel like a mom? How has your motherhood evolved?

I first felt like a mom when I was pregnant with my first son and I intentionally chose to change my eating habits so my body could be strong and healthy for him. I didn't have to think twice—I just did what I thought would be best for him. That decision being so effortless made me realize I was made for motherhood.

My perspective has changed with each baby as I've realized motherhood doesn't have to be one-size-fits-all. With my first son, I was a by-the-book mama and it was so stressful. With each baby, I have felt more freedom and it has made motherhood so much more beautiful. I have evolved into the mother that they need, I am perfect for these boys.

This article was sponsored by Dr. Brown's. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.

Our Partners

There has been a growing buzz lately about what some are calling "lazy parenting." It's being touted as the antidote to helicopter parenting, and, while its name may suggest otherwise, it's actually anything but lazy.

So what's the deal with lazy parenting? How do I do it and what will it do for my kids?

When I first heard of lazy parenting, I thought someone had been spying on my house on Fridays from 5:30pm until bedtime.

Keep reading Show less
Learn + Play