Jasmine Tookes’ family just got a little bigger—and a little brighter.

The former Victoria’s Secret Angel and her husband, Juan David Borrero, welcomed their second child, a baby boy named Mateo Ira Borrero, on October 28. The couple shared the happy news on Instagram, posting a tender black-and-white photo with their newborn and two-year-old daughter, Mia.

In the images, Tookes cradles baby Mateo while Mia rests her tiny hand on her brother, surrounded by quiet joy. Their caption was simple but full of heart: “The greatest blessing. Mateo Ira Borrero 🤎 10.28.25.”

What she’s said about this pregnancy

Earlier this year, Tookes revealed she was expecting again with a serene maternity shoot in all white, writing, “Another little soul to love.” But behind the glow was a story many mothers will recognise: juggling work, motherhood, and the unpredictability of timing.

“I’m a big planner,” she told Vogue. “Having another baby was something that my husband and I always wanted to do. It was just a matter of timing and when it made sense—when we both weren’t traveling as much.”

In an interview with PEOPLE, she shared that this pregnancy felt smoother in some ways and harder in others. “This second time around is a little bit harder just because I do have a toddler,” she said. “She’s 2½ and needs a ton of attention and love, so trying to balance both as well as a brand and doing beautiful collaborations—it has its moments.”

Still, Tookes found herself more at ease the second time. “It’s been honestly so much easier in terms of thinking about everything because I know what to expect,” she told PEOPLE. “With my first, it was all so new to me… this time, I feel a little bit more comfort in knowing what’s coming.”

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The second-time calm many moms recognise

Ask any parent of two, and they’ll tell you: the second time often feels different. The sleepless nights and feeding schedules may still be intense, but the fear of the unknown eases. There’s a rhythm, an intuition, that wasn’t there before.

Research shows that prior parenting experience can reduce anxiety in the postpartum period: a University of Michigan study found that although some concerns persist, many second-time mothers report less worry about forming a bond with the new baby compared with the first time. 

Additionally, an article from the Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health emphasises that up to one in five birthing individuals experience anxiety or depression in the perinatal period, and that known experience, social support and clearer expectations all help buffer that risk.

For Tookes, that shift was tangible. Her interviews reflect a mom who’s learned to trust herself more and stress less, a reminder to all mothers that experience breeds a quiet kind of strength.

Slowing down isn’t easy but it matters

Perhaps the most poignant reflection from Tookes came when she admitted how hard it can be to pause: “I’m such a hard worker, and I go, go, go. I don’t stop,” she told PEOPLE. “But I think for me, it’s nice to have a moment to force myself to stop and slow down a little bit.”

That’s a line that resonates with so many working mothers, those trying to meet deadlines, hold babies, and still carve out rest. Slowing down doesn’t come naturally, but it’s essential.

Small reminders for this season:

  • Protect quiet time, even if it’s just 10 minutes of stillness.
  • Say no to what drains you.
  • Let “rest” count as something productive, it’s recovery, not idleness.

Motherhood, especially the second time, isn’t about doing more, it’s about noticing more.

Building your own support circle

As she enters this new chapter, Tookes shared that her family will be close by to help. “My husband’s family is coming into town for two to three months, and my mom will be here too,” she told PEOPLE. “It’ll be a full house.”

For many parents, accepting help can be hard, but it’s also deeply necessary. Having support (whether from family, friends, or community) can lighten the emotional and physical load of postpartum life.

If you’re preparing for your own version of this season, consider small ways to build your circle: set up a meal train, trade childcare hours with a neighbour, or make a list of people you can call for practical help. Support doesn’t have to be grand; it just has to be consistent.

Related: Kourtney Kardashian shares powerful message about the ‘pressure to bounce back’ post-birth

A full heart, not a full schedule

As baby Mateo settles into the world, Tookes is embracing a pace that feels new to her, one defined less by hustle and more by heart. She’s choosing to trade productivity for presence, to let this brief season of life be defined by connection rather than achievement.

Because for many mothers, the greatest lesson that comes with baby number two is this: confidence grows, chaos softens, and love multiplies. And sometimes, the most beautiful work of all is learning how to slow down.

Sources:

  1. University of Michigan. 2023. “Despite some worries, pregnant moms love their second child as much as their first.”
  2. Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health. ”About Maternal Mental Health Disorders.”
  3. Vogue. 2025. “Jasmine Tookes Is Pregnant! The Model on Her Pregnancy Routine, Style, and Launching a Business Amid It All.”
  4. PEOPLE. 2025. “Jasmine Tookes Opens Up About Second Pregnancy, Shares How She’s Preparing to Welcome Baby Boy on the Way (Exclusive).”