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21 Mother's Day gifts your mom, sister, best friend (and oh yeah, you!) will love

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Prior to having kids, Mother's Day was all about my mom and how I could thank her for all that she had done for me and my sisters. I never really bothered to acknowledge any of the other women in my life who were mothers… because they weren't my mom.

And then I started having kids and Mother's Day took on a whole new meaning.

Now I want to shower all of the mamas in my life with gifts and love and hugs because I know exactly what all of them have gone through. I look at them and I see sleepless nights, constant worrying and 24/7 multitasking. I see laugh lines and gray hairs (because I've got those, too). I see chefs, therapists, nurses and tutors all wrapped into one body.

Point being: Mother's Day isn't just an opportunity to treat yo' mama. It's also a day where you can look at your bestie or your neighbor or your sister and say, "You're doing a great job. Happy Mother's Day."

We've rounded up 20 of our favorite gifts to give the mamas in your life. Some thoughtful, some helpful and some just plain cozy.

1. The 'it' bag

The old adage "she's too hard to buy for" simply doesn't pertain to this here purse. Every mama out there would love Coach's Sutton Bag, with its sweet pea floral pattern, practical crossbody strap, zippered enclosures and brass hardware. We dare her not to fall in love with it.

$325

2. The flowers, Urban Stems

Urban Stems x Vogue

Sure you could send any ol' bouquet, but why do that when you can opt for a high-design one? Urban Stems approaches flowers with a modern and young zest, and we can't get enough of their collab with Vogue.

$48.00

3. The book, This Is Motherhood

This Is Motherhood

Yes, we're biased, but what can we say? Our hot-off-the-presses collection of essays dubbed This Is Motherhood is the perfect gift to give to a mama you love.

$11.99

4. The jammies, Soma

Soma Cool Nights Pajamas

Let's face it: Mamas are in their pjs. A lot. It comes with the territory. But let's replace her old college t-shirt and worn-thin sweatpants with some super-cozy (and dare we say slightly sexy) pajamas from Soma. Available in a slew of additional patterns and separates (Shorts! Pants! Nightgowns!), the Cool Nights Sleepwear focuses on keeping you cool at night. We're obsessed with this slinky striped set.

$82.00

5. The photograph, Artifact Uprising

Artifact Uprising Gallery Frames

Got a photo that will make her smile? Or laugh? Or cry? Then it's time to frame it! Or put it in a book or calendar or… just go to Artifact Uprising to see all the beautiful things they can do with your favorite digital memories.

$59.00

6. The tote, Cuyana

Cuyana Tote

Yes, diaper bags serve a purpose, but they're also a wee bit soul crushing for anyone who used to consider themselves a true "bag person." Answer her prayers with Cuyana's beautiful leather tote she'll use everyday (when she's not lugging bottles and sippy cups) that also has a thoughtful monogram to show her you got it custom just for her.

$175.00

7. The water bottle, Proof

Proof Water Bottle

Every mom's got a purse full of tricks/necessities/snacks... and of course, water. And believe us when we say there are water bottles, and then there is Proof. Comprised of medical-grade steel, Proof bottles can keep your liquids cold for 24 hours, hot for 12 and they can also fit ice cubes. Did we mention they're pretty, too? Woot woot!

$30.00

8. The digital frame, Aura

Aura Digital Frame

If we had to pick one gift to give all the mamas out there this Mother's Day, Aura would be at the top of our list. A sleek digital frame that works right out of the box, Aura is super easy to use (simply link your phone's photo album to the Aura app and upload pics from there) and allows unlimited contributors. So your sister in Alaska, your brother in the Yucatan and you in New Jersey can all share photos to your mom's brand new frame that features a rotating gallery of her family. We're not crying… you're crying!

$299.00

9. The silk eye mask + pillowcase, Brooklinen

If anyone needs their beauty sleep, it's a mama. Ultra-pampering, this gift gives from Brooklinen will help her sleep better thanks to the breathable and soft-as-butter mulberry silk eye mask and pillowcase. Bonus: It's also super gentle on both skin and hair.

$79.00

10. The ring, Nordstrom

Kris National Mama Ring

Whether she's been a mama for decades or hasn't even given birth yet, we don't know any woman who wouldn't love this cutie at first sight. Ya know, just like her kids.

$45.00

11. The bathrobe, Parachute

Parachute classic bathrobe

Everyone needs a bathrobe that is downy and soft and completely warms you up post-shower, and this one from Parachute gets the job done. Like a furry bear—but not so furry that it doesn't absorb water—this Turkish cotton bathrobe will make her giddy at first sight. (And so will the roomy front pockets that can fit her cell phone, a bottle, her reading glasses and more!)

$99.00

12. The getaway stay, Airbnb

Airbnb Cuba Stay

Tangible gifts are great, but nothing trumps travel, right? Give her an Airbnb gift card and the two of you can immediately start planning your getaway. Bon voyage, ladies! Prices vary.

$150

13. The all-you-need makeup palette, Charlotte Tilbury

Charlotte Tilbury Palette

After years of momming, when we finally do get a night out, the prospect of glamming ourselves up can be a bit… daunting. Charlotte Tilbury to the rescue! The makeup artist to the stars (she counts Nicole Kidman as a client) has a super-high-quality beauty line and her Instant Look in a Palette makes creating a smoky eye super easy, and also contains a bronzer for sculpting, a shimmery gold for highlighting and two pretty pinks for blushing. Done and done.

$75.00

14. The vacuum, Dyson V11 Torque

Dyson V11 Torque

Listen, we realize it's 2019 and not 1950. That said, give Dyson's new cord-free vacuum, the V11 Torque Drive, to any mom and she might just cry real tears right there on the spot. Why? It's the vacuum to top all vacuums. And as every mom knows, we're cleaning up CONSTANTLY.

Its biggest bonus is you only need one cleaner head for rugs and floors. We also love the smart screen that tells you exactly how many minutes of battery you have left (and if something goes wrong, how to fix it!).

$699.00

15. The kicks, Nordstrom

Vejas Sneakers

Sure, we'd all love a pair of Louboutins for Mother's Day, but we'd probably only wear them a few times a year (if we're lucky!). What do we wear ALL YEAR LONG? Sneakers. So amp up your own mom's cool factor or make your sister giddy with these on-tred sneaks from Brazilian brand Veja. More to know: They're a favorite of Meghan Markle, too.

$120.00

16. The facial roller, Revolve

Nurse Jamie Facial Roller

ICYMI: Gemstone facial rollers are all the rage right now. Why? By rolling them against your face and neck, you're de-puffing, tightening and energizing your skin. Read: This is the beauty product every mom needs! Our favorite is Nurse Jamie's Uplift Massage Roller (also beloved by Hillary Duff, Jenna Dewan Tatum, and others), which is a bright purple hand-held wand that is fun to look at and actually works, too.

$69.00

17. The necklace, Nordstrom

Kate Spade Initial Necklace

A sweet necklace that is dainty on its own, Kate Spade's One in a Million Pendant is tops on our list because it will also look fab layered. Whether you opt to gift your loved one's initials or those of her kids, this piece will be treasured.

$58.00

18. The clothing subscription, Stitch Fix

Stitch Fix

Have you ever met a mom that has ample time to shop? Nope. This is where you introduce her to Stitch Fix, the Internet's answer to a personal stylist. How does it work? You give her a gift card and she uses it to redeem the personalized styling services—she fills out a user profile and clothes arrive at her door within days, she keeps what she wants and return what she doesn't. Shopping without the pressures of pushy sales girls or bad lighting, she'll get used to that.

$20.00

19. The artwork, Minted

Minted Artwork

Part of Minted's Every Mother Counts collaboration, this beautiful print dubbed "mama's arms" by Keely Norton Owendoff is just a lovely piece of art that anyone would want on a shelf or wall in their home. By purchasing the print—which you can buy unframed, framed or on stretched canvas—you're contributing to Christy Turlington's non-profit that aims to make childbirth safer around the world. Yep, literally every mom will be on board with this gift.

$23.00

20. The slippers, Nordstrom

Ugg Slipper

For better or worse, Uggs are the ubiquitous mom shoe. Yes, there are sleeker footwear options… but have you ever tried on Uggs?! Heaven in a furry boot. For Mother's Day, consider the at-home Ugg, a.k.a. the slipper. With a suede upper, the signature shearling lining and a rubber sole (yes, you can take out the recycling or grab your mail in these puppies). You're about to give the greatest gift ever.

$99.00

21. The beach bag, Walmart

Ev1 Beach Bag

Is there anything worse that a bag full of sand on a beach day? Well, yes, there are worse things, lol… but it is really annoying! Cure that problem for the mama in your life with a mesh beach bag from Ev1 (Ellen Degeneres' line with Walmart) that is super cute in this bright neon hue and super cheap at this insane price.

$7.99

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As a mid-Spring holiday, we never knew exactly what to expect from the weather on Easter when I was growing up in Michigan: Would we get to wear our new Sunday dresses without coats? Or would we be hunting for eggs while wearing snowsuits?

Although what the temperature had in store was really anyone's guess, there were a few special traditions my sister and I could always depend on—and it won't come as a surprise to anyone who knows me that my favorite memories revolved around food. After all, experts say memories are strongest when they tie senses together, which certainly seems to be true when it comes to holiday meals that involve the sounds of laughter and the taste of amazing food.

Now that I'm a parent, I'm experiencing Easter anew as my children discover the small delights of chocolate, pre-church brunch and a multi-generational dinner. While I still look forward to the treats and feasting, I'm realizing now that the sweetest thing of all is how these traditions bring our family together around one table.

For us, the build-up to Easter eats is an extended event. Last year's prep work began weeks in advance when my 3-year-old and I sat down to plan the brunch menu, which involved the interesting suggestion of "green eggs and ham." When the big morning rolled around, his eyes grew to the size of Easter eggs out of pure joy when the dish was placed on the table.

This year, rather than letting the day come and go in a flash, we are creating traditions that span weeks and allow even the littlest members of the family to feel involved.

Still, as much as I love enlisting my children's help, I also relish the opportunity to create some magic of my own with their Easter baskets—even if the Easter Bunny gets the credit. This year, I'm excited to really personalize the baskets by getting an "adoptable" plush unicorn for my daughter and the Kinder Chocolate Mini Eggs that my son hasn't stopped talking about since seeing at the store. (You can bet this mama is stocking up on some for herself, too.)

At the same time, Easter as a parent has opened my eyes to how much effort can be required...

There is the selection of the right Easter outfits for picture-perfect moments.

There is the styling of custom Easter baskets.

There is the filling of plastic eggs and strategic placement of them throughout the yard.

But when the cameras are put away and we all join together around the table for the family dinner at the end of the day, I can finally take a deep breath and really enjoy—especially with the knowledge that doing the dishes is my husband's job.

This article was sponsored by Kinder. Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas.


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Maybe it's just me, but every time I look on my social media feeds someone is baking desserts or breads that look incredibly delicious. According to Google Trends, as the coronavirus continues to spread, searches for 'banana bread' have skyrocketed. In the last 30 days, these searches are up 84% in the UK and 54% worldwide. Maybe it's stress baking, or maybe it's boredom, but people are in the kitchen living their best lives.

But here's the challenge: I'm trying to skip going to grocery stores and with food deliveries being spotty, I'm finding it harder to create the desserts my family loves while stuck at home. I can't seem to keep enough flour, sugar and eggs around. Enter: 3-ingredient recipes designed for mamas like me, who decide to make large dishes only to realize I have half of the ingredients.

Here are our favorite 3-ingredient desserts your entire family will love:

1. Peanut butter cereal bites

Serves: 1

Total time: 15 minutes

Ingredients:

  • Honey
  • Peanut butter
  • Honey nut cereal

Instructions:

  1. Put 1-part peanut butter and 1-part honey in a bowl.
  2. Microwave for about a minute. Stir until combined.
  3. Add 3-4 parts cereal. Stir.
  4. Scoop into bite size pieces and place on wax paper to cool.

Recipe from Tasty.

2. Chocolate fudge

Serves: 6-8

Total time: 90 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 3 cups semisweet chocolate chips
  • 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk
  • 1/4 cup butter
  • Walnuts and pretzels, optional

Instructions:

  1. Add semi-sweet chocolate chips, sweetened condensed milk and butter (or margarine, if that's all you have on hand) in a large microwaveable bowl.
  2. Warm in microwave on medium until melted, about 3-5 minutes. Be sure to stir about every minute.
  3. Pour fudge mixture into a well-greased 8 x 8 inch glass baking dish. Refrigerate until set.
Recipe from Dear Crissy.

3. Shortbread cookies

Serves: 16

Total time: 40 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup unsalted butter, softened
  • 1/2 cup sugar
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • Confectioners' sugar, optional

Instructions:

  • Preheat the oven to 325 degrees. Cream butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Gradually beat in flour. Press dough into an ungreased 9-in. square baking pan. Prick with a fork.
  • Bake until light brown, 30-35 minutes. Cut into squares while warm. Cool completely on a wire rack. If desired, dust with confectioners sugar.
Recipe from Taste of Home.

4. Healthy banana oatmeal breakfast bars

Serves: 1 bar

Total time: 30 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 6 to 7 mashed bananas
  • 1 cup of peanut butter
  • 4 cups of old fashioned rolled oats

Instructions:

  1. Preheat your oven to 350F. Line an 8 x 8 inch pan with parchment paper and set aside.
  2. In a large mixing bowl, combine your mashed banana, peanut butter, and old fashioned (rolled) oats and mix until a thick dough remains. If the batter is too thin, add some extra oats. If using chocolate chips, fold them in, using a rubber spatula.
  3. Pour the batter in the lined pan and spread out on an even layer. Top with some extra chocolate chips and bake for 12-15 minutes, or until golden brown on top and a skewer comes out clean.
  4. Remove from the oven and allow the breakfast bars to sit in the pan for 10 minutes, or until loose enough to transfer to a wire rack to cool completely.

Recipe from a Big Mans World.

5. Peanut butter cups

Serves: 6

Total time: 1 hour and 15 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 3 tablespoons powdered sugar, sifted
  • ½ cup creamy peanut butter
  • 1 cup chocolate, melted

Instructions:

  1. Prepare a cupcake tin with 6 liners.
  2. Stir peanut butter and powdered sugar together until smooth.
  3. Spread 1 to 2 tbsp of chocolate in the bottom of each cupcake liner.
  4. Dollop 1 to 2 tsp of the peanut butter mixture on top of the chocolate.
  5. Cover each dollop of peanut butter with more chocolate and smooth out the top.
  6. Refrigerate for 1 hour or until chocolate has hardened.
  7. Remove peanut butter cups from the liners.

Recipe from Tasty.

6. Sugar cookies

Serves: 12

Total time: 30 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 1 stick unsalted butter, plus 2 tbsp. salted butter
  • 1/3 cups sugar
  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • Sprinkles, optional

Instructions:

  1. Preheat the oven to 325 degrees.
  2. Use an electric mixer to cream the sugar and butter, whipping the two until the butter is almost white and the mixture is light and fluffy, almost like a slightly gritty frosting, then stir in flour.
  3. Form the cookies into 1-inch balls, placing them about two inches apart on a baking sheet. If using sprinkles, flatten cookies into a disc shape and top with sprinkles.
  4. Bake for 15 to 17 minutes, or until the edges of the cookies are lightly golden.

Recipe from Delish.

7. Cake mix cobbler

Serves: 8

Total time: 55 minutes

Ingredients:

  • 2 cans peaches in light syrup
  • 1 box yellow cake mix
  • 1/2 cup butter, melted

Instructions:

  1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
  2. Pour peaches into a baking dish. Sprinkle cake mix on top and pour melted butter all over.
  3. Bake in the preheated oven until golden brown, about 50 minutes.

Recipe from All Recipes.

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Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel are abiding by social isolation recommendations with their 5-year-old son, Silas. The family of three has been holed up in their vacation home in Montana and while Timberlake says they're doing good (and grateful to be in a place where they have some outdoor space for Silas) he admits he and Biel are missing having help.

During an interview with SiriusXM's Hits 1 this week Timberlake was asked how his marriage is holding up under the stress of isolation. "We're doing good," he said. "We're mostly commiserating over the fact that 24-hour parenting is just not human. It's not. "

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He's not wrong. Parenting isn't something we are supposed to do in isolation. Throughout history, we've had support from extended family, friends and our communities, the proverbial village. And now we don't have that, which means we don't have breaks from our kids—something Timberlake is missing.

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He says sometimes even Silas looks up at him with an expression that shows he is needing some space from his dad, too. "Just a commercial break," Timberlake jokes.

We all need a commercial break from our kids sometimes. Experts say that in these tense times when togetherness is necessary and our kids need us more than ever, we also need to carve out space when we can by doing things like waking up 15 minutes before our kids do for a quiet coffee break, or maintaining a bedtime schedule to allow for some adult time at night.

Encouraging independent play is another way for parents to get some space when they need it. According to Biel, Silas (who just turned five this week) is super into Legos right now, so maybe he can build some projects on his own the next time he needs a commercial break from this dad.

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A lot of people remember actress Jennifer Stone for her teenage role opposite Selena Gomez on Wizards of Waverly Place, but these days the 27-year-old actress is all grown up and has a new career as a registered nurse.

Stone still acts, but she's also been busy pursuing a career in nursing and graduated at the end of last year. On #worldhealthday this week she posted a photo of her hospital IDs, and later added an Instagram Story showing off her scrubs and nursing shoes for a day of work at the hospital as an RN resident.

"I just hope to live up to all of the amazing healthcare providers on the front lines now as I get ready to join them," she captioned the pic of her hospital IDs.

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Stone's post is going viral and reminding people that nurses are the real superstars in our society right now.

Nurses are the backbone of the fight against COVID-19, but we don't have enough of them, the World Health Organization (WHO) pointed out this week. WHO says globally, we're about 6 million nurses short of how many we need to fight this pandemic, and notes that about 90% all nurses are female but few nurses (or women) are found in senior health leadership positions.

"Nurses are the backbone of the health system," WHO Director-General Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus said this week. "Today, many nurses find themselves on the frontline in the battle against COVID-19. This report is a stark reminder of the unique role they play, and a wakeup call to ensure they get the support they need to keep the world healthy."

Meanwhile nurses and the unions supporting them continue to raise the alarm about the lack of personal proactive equipment (PPE) and N95 masks for these critical workers. Nancy Nielsen, former president of the American Medical Association recently told CNBC that it's important to understand that "health-care workers are at risk, and they need to be protected with protective gear to prevent infection," and that "these women [in health-care professions] also have responsibility to take care of parents, who are older, and school-aged children...So their lives are enormously impacted by worrying about elderly relatives and by school closures."

Nursing is a career that doesn't get enough respect in our society, and while we need more nurses, it's hard to get them right now. Stone's December graduation made it easier for her work than the students who would be graduating next month and are stuck without necessary requirements.

Stone went viral this week because it's not every day that you see a Disney Channel star switch to hospital scrubs, but we have to remember all the nurses that are working to save lives with little recognition or support. Kids are still watching Stone on old Wizards of Waverly Place reruns, but society needs to watch out for women she'll be working beside, too.

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So much has changed for our kids in recent weeks. The normal routines are gone, they can't see their friends and extended family (or in some cases, even their first responder parents). If you're noticing your child regressing a bit during this difficult time, don't worry, mama. It's totally normal if your preschooler is suddenly wanting to pretend to be a baby or if your school-age child wants way more cuddles and comfort than they did two months ago.

Here's what you need to know about child regression during the coronavirus pandemic:

Regression is a totally normal response to what's going on in the world.

Little kids don't have the vocabulary or experience to tell us that they are stressed and in need of comfort. Instead, they might say "pretend I'm a baby" or ask for lullabies you haven't sung in years. A potty-trained child might start having accidents and older kids may say "I can't do it" when asked to perform a task they have previously mastered.

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This does not mean you are failing, mama.

"Regression is typical in normal childhood, and it can be caused by stress, by frustration, or by a traumatic event," doctors Hermioni N. Lokko and Theodore A. Stern note in their research on the subject.

According to psychotherapist Noel McDermott, everyone (even us adults) is likely to regress or not function at our normal level during this pandemic. "Children are going to regress more than adults, and the younger the child, the more the regression is likely to be." McDermott tells The Huffington Post.

Comfort is key in addressing regression.

Regression can be frustrating for parents, especially during an already stressful time when everyone is locked in the house together. It's going to be frustrating to see a puddle of pee under your 6-year-old's feet or to have your preschooler throw tantrums you thought they'd outgrown.

It's okay to be frustrated, mama, but experts suggest that scolding or punishing a child who is regressing only makes it worse. We need to meet regression with kindness, comfort and open arms, even if our kids are refusing to do something we need them to do, like brush their teeth or wash their hands.

Dr. Laura Markham of AhaParenting tells Today "the best intervention is reassurance." Markham suggests parents offer a safe space to kids who are having a hard time and try using phrases like "'You are having such a hard time right now, aren't you? Don't worry, Sweetheart. I am right here to help.'"

She continues: "You step in, hold her kindly, make it fun, and get the hand-washing accomplished."

Recognize that you are your child's rock, but you are also human.

Parenting during a pandemic and economic recession is incredibly stressful. Alone time for moms was minuscule before and practically a fantasy now. You might be longing for a quiet moment. Our hearts melt the first time our children say "mama," but if your blood pressure rises when you hear it for the 10,000th time a day that's okay. It doesn't mean you're not a great mom, it just means you're stressed and so is your child.

"With more anxious children, they may be asking more questions than usual, and seeking reassurance that everything is going to be okay," Genevieve von Lob, a psychologist and author of "Happy Parent, Happy Child" tells The Huffington Post. "Parents may also find that their children are more unsettled at bedtime and are scared to be left alone."

But it is important that mama be left alone, sometimes. If you have a partner or another adult in your home this may mean that they take over caregiving to allow you to have an extra long shower or just some alone time in your bedroom. If you don't have another adult in the home, try to steal a moment for yourself where you can, even if that means the dishes go undone or the kids watch Frozen 2 for the 10th time.

"Try to be aware of your level of stress and anxiety and be kind to yourself," Dr. Tovah Klein, director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Development tells Today. "Take 15 minutes in the morning to have coffee by yourself before children wake up."

Bottom line: Regression is natural, normal and hard.

Our kids express anxiety in ways that can be very difficult for parents. Sleeping and eating problems often develop when kids are stressed, and when you've been up all night worrying about how you're going to put food on your table during this economic turmoil it's hard to deal with a kid who is suddenly very picky about what you're serving for breakfast. But for kids, anxiety and stress often manifest as eating and sleeping issues.

It's rough, but this is the time where we need to come at our kids with kindness and connection. They need us more than ever. It's okay to sing a lullaby to 10-year-old or rock a 4-year-old to sleep. They need the extra cuddles right now.

We can't control how out of control the outside world has become, but we can help our children feel safe (even when the world isn't).

As psychologist and parenting coach Dr. Rebecca Schrag Hershberg previously wrote for Motherly: "Children show their stress in different ways: throwing more tantrums, being more moody, irritable or defiant, or regressing in a particular area such as language or potty training. However your kids are showing that they're worried—or even if they are not yet—there is nothing more valuable than giving them a hug and letting them know you've got them and it's all going to be okay."

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