Why Experiences Matter More Than Toys for Kids
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Home / Holidays

Why we’re asking for experiences, not toys

Explore expert insights and tips on choosing experiences over toys for your children. Read more on Motherly!

By Motherly Updated Mar. 28, 2025

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Dear family + friends, we’re not asking for toys this holiday season. But if you want to get my kids a gift, give them an experience that will stay with them forever.

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