Fun as it may be to wear, lingerie isn’t always the easiest to buy. For one thing, trying it on isn’t always in the cards and figuring out what size to buy can feel like calculus. Honestly, it’s no surprise that 80% of women are wearing the wrong bra size! Plus, there’s often stress around body image or worrying about which color to pick only to realize when you try it on, the set is nothing like you imagined. Add in a C-section scar or extra skin around your midsection and many of us prefer to wear a comfy tee for the rest of time than try on lingerie.

The struggle is real, but this Valentine’s day we’re on a mission to find lingerie that not only fits, but makes you feel sexy and empowered because you deserve to feel special every night of the year.

Check out some of the gorgeous comfortable lingerie styles we have our eye on right now. Whether you’re asleep by 9 or up all night, you’ll be able to find a few minutes to slip into something.

Our favorite comfortable lingerie

LOVESUZE Ever-Stretch Leopard Lace Racerback Bralette



Ever-Stretch Leopard Lace Racerback Bralette and Panties

Nothing is sexier than feeling comfortable in your own skin. If strapping yourself into complicated lingerie isn’t your thing (we hear you!) throw on this matching bralette and panty set to help you feel good all over. Like the rest of the LoveSuze line, the wireless bralette is crafted with their “Flex-Sizing” materials that stretch and mold to your unique shape. What’s better than that?


Thistle and Spire Medusa Body Suit

Thistle and Spire


Medusa Bodysuit

With its halter neck, mesh body and embroidered snakes that wind their way over your curves, this bodysuit rivals any superhero costume. I mean, how could you not feel ready to kick butt and take names while wearing this? I’m also completely smitten with the inclusivity of sizing (XS-3x) and skin tone options (and red or gold if you’d rather go that route.)

commando faux leather longline bralette



Faux Leather Longline Bralette

Five second lingerie is fun (you know, the kind that looks like dental floss and is equally supportive). But, when it’s comfortable to wear enough all day long, you get to feel sexy all day long as well. And that’s even more fun. This super hot bralette from Commando taps into your inner Rihanna and puts her in charge from dinner, through drinks and beyond.

Third Love Deco Lace Unlined Bra

Third Love


Deco Lace Unlined Bra

A classy and sexy bra that’s also supremely comfortable and supportive? Sign us up. The Deco Lace Bra from Third Love (who happen to make some of the most comfy everyday bras out there) touts a 1920’s inspired lace overlay that’s almost too pretty to cover up. So maybe don’t?

Proof Leak Proof High Waisted Lace Brief



Leak Proof High Waisted Lace Brief

Sure, sometimes your period makes you feel the opposite of sexy. But sometimes it makes you friskier than ever. (How convenient, right?🙄) Proof has you covered with undies that are as functional as they are flirty. Their Leak Proof High Waisted Lace Brief offers all the protection of their regular period panties but with a vintage-inspired lacy look that’s anything but boring.

Kindred Bravely Lucille Nightgown

Kindred Bravely


Lucille Nightgown

Pregnant and nursing mamas, don’t think we forgot about you! For a flirty look that’s designed with you in mind, the comfy Lucille Nightgown from Kindred Bravely is made from super soft modal and features convenient clip down cups for nighttime feedings.

Coquette Lace Trim Romper

Kilo Brava


Slinky Romper

You can never go wrong with a satiny red romper. With its romantic vibes and lace trim, this romantic piece feels as perfect for lounging as it does for extra curriculars. 😉Available in sizes S-3X

Cosabella Magnolia Longline Underwire Bra



Magnolia Longline Underwire Bra

Lacy and romantic, this longline bra features underwire cups and boning at the sides to add support. Add in the matching garter belt and g-string for a look that’s going to require a crane to lift their jaw up off the floor.

Adore Me Roanne

Adore Me



“Less is more” is not always the case with lingerie. Sexy and playful doesn’t have to look like paperclips and dental floss–a tank and boy shorts can also fit the bill! This lingerie-meets-lounge set is lacy and soft making it the perfect set for getting spicy or just drifting off to dreamland. And like much of the Adore Me collection it’s available in XS-XL as well as curvy sizes from 0X-4X.

journelle natalia bodysuit



Natalia Bodysuit

A favorite brand among lingerie enthusiasts, Journelle always gets top marks for quality and details. A perfect example? This stunning bodysuit which comes highly recommended for its flattering fit, gorgeous art nouveau lace and exquisite silk tie at the nape of the neck. And if white feels too “wedding night,” it also comes in several colors and black as well.

hanky panky signature lace original rise thong

Hanky Panky


Original Rise Thong Panty

Hands down the most comfortable thong ever made, Hanky Panky has been perfecting the style since 1986. They’re made from a supremely stretchy lace fabric that doesn’t creep, dig or itch and with a little bit of sorcery manage to fit an incredible range of shapes and sizes. (They legit sell a pair every 10 seconds. Clearly they know what they’re doing.) Yes, they’re pricy but trust me. They’re worth every penny. (And come in a billion colors and patterns, so apologies in advance.)

Pour Moi Couture Bustier

Pour Moi


Couture Bustier

If a little extra support is what you’re looking for, the Pour Moi Couture Bustier delivers. With cleavage boosting underwire, wide straps, and a gorgeous silhouette, it’s an absolute stunner. Just like you, mama.

gooseberry full on glam set



Full On Glam

Why high waisted styles ever fell out of favor, I’ll never understand. The cut always flatters, adding length and definition. Whatever the reason, I’m oh-so-thrilled they’re back. This lacy duo from Gooseberry showcases the beauty of it perfectly with their uber sexy high waist thong and matching longline underwire bra. Prices start at $39.

natori lolita cami



Lolita Cami

If a splurge is in order, Natori is the way to go. The luxury brand has been in the game since 1977 and the attention to detail shows. A stand out? This timeless silk and lace camisole (and matching shorts!) which demands breakfast in bed and someone to wait on you hand and foot. A girl can dream, right?

Not in the budget? Don’t worry. This affordable dupe from Asos commands the same.