15 Children’s books to help kids understand adoption

Every child should know their birth story, whether they are raised by their birth parents or not, and this book by actress Jamie Lee Curtis shows how valuable that tale really is. This story not only talks about the night the child was born, however. It also asks, “Tell me again how you would adopt me and be my parents” and “Tell me again about the first time you held me in your arms” because those stories matter too. “Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born” is a special celebration of the love and joy an adopted child creates for a family.

Suitable for kids ages 5-10, “The Mulberry Bird: An Adoption Story” tells of a mother bird who loves her baby very much, but when her nest is damaged by a storm, she finds she can no longer care for her baby and keep him safe. The loving mother must then let another family care for him in a nest that is strong and secure. A tale of love and sacrifice, this is a timeless adoption story that shows how one child can be loved by multiple parents—all of whom love that baby with their whole heart and soul.

Reflective of long-distance or international adoptions, this is a story of devoted parents who traveled very far from home to adopt their daughter and create their forever family. “My Family is Forever” shows that being a family isn’t about who you look like or where you were born—it’s about the love that binds you together.

Families who have bonded together through transracial or transcultural adoption know that celebrating each family member’s differences is the key to love, acceptance, and belonging. “I Don’t Have Your Eyes” teaches this very valuable lesson—that even though a child and their parents might look physically different on the outside, on the inside, they are the same and they are all a part of one family.

Some families have two moms, some have two dads. Some have only one parent, and some kids are raised by their grandparents or another family member or guardian. “The Family Book” helps reminds all children to be inclusive and accepting of different types of families and to remember that each family’s uniqueness is actually the best thing about it!

Stellaluna is a baby fruit bat knocked from its nest by an attacking owl. Thankfully, she lands in the nest of a bird family who adopts her and welcomes her with love. And, as a bonus, this beautiful story includes two pages of interesting facts about bats for kids to read as well! An adoption story that’s also a mini-science lesson, “Stellaluna” is a must-have for your child’s bookshelf.

Written by an adoptee, “Adoption is Both” employs easy-to-read, catchy rhymes as it delves into many of the feelings and experiences adopted children may have. For example, adoption can be both happy and sad. An adoptee can feel both love and loss. Elena S. Hall helps children recognize that all of these feelings are OK, are valid, and that lots of children (and adults) who are adopted experience similar emotions.

If you’re looking for a joyous celebration of the day an adopted child joined their forever family, here it is. Harriet Evans explores all of the steps of the adoption process, including those first meetings, to getting to know one another, to making new family traditions, and shows how all of those exciting experiences form the fabric of a family.

Keiko Kasza’s twist on the “Are you my mother?” theme has become one of the most highly recommended stories about adoption for children. A little bird named Choco sets out on a quest to find a mother who looks like him, but when he does find a mother, she’s a bear! And her kids at home are a piglet, a hippo and an alligator! And that’s when Choco (and the reader) learn that families comes in all shapes and sizes and still fit together.

An excellent choice to spark conversations with your children about adoption—international adoption especially—this story has won first place in the children’s book category at the North Texas Book Festival and the Grand Prize for children’s books from Authors Marketing International.

Also, Midwest Book Review calls it, “An exceptional stand-out in the literature of children’s picture books covering adoption in general and international processes in particular; highly recommended.”

Today Show anchor Hoda Kotb tells of the magical moment she adopted her daughter Haley Joy in this heartwarming tale. With beautiful lyrics and captivating illustrations on every page, this is a story about how both Hoda and Haley were out there, in the universe, awaiting the day their “stars would meet” and their lives would be forever changed for the better.

“And That’s Why She’s My Mama” teaches the valuable lesson of what it really means to be a mother. She kisses your boo-boos, holds you when you’re scared, takes you to the park, and makes you feel loved and safe. Not all mothers hold their babies in their tummies, but all mothers do have one thing in common—they love their kids!

“The Little Green Goose” is a story of a male goose who desperately wants to be a dad, but none of the hens will give him one of their eggs. However, when a dog digs up an egg in the woods, Mr. Goose builds a nest for it and anxiously waits for it to hatch—only he ends up with a baby dinosaur, not a gosling! Even though the dad and baby don’t look alike, Mr. Goose raises his baby with complete devotion, showing baby dinosaur what unconditional love and family look like.

When Little Miss Spider is born, her mother is nowhere to be found, so she sets out to find her, encountering many dangerous circumstances on her journey. Thankfully, Betty the Beetle offers kind assistance and protection along the way, encouraging the baby spider to “look for the creature who loves you the best.” In the end, that creature is Betty the Beetle herself and she was right there all along.

Fred the Fox spends much of his life living with various families, always searching for his forever home. In the end, Fred finds himself with a big, blended family, where everyone looks a little bit different and comes from diverse backgrounds, and it turns out, that’s exactly where Fred was meant to be. This is a beautiful tale of what it means to truly be a family.